Take Back Your Personal Power: The 4 Crucial Steps

What do you think it is Your Personal Power?

Your personal Power is your inner ability to
TAKE ACTION and produce results.

It is a power that lives within You and ignites
at certain times of your life, leading you to
achieve the results you want so bad.

See, we all have it within us but sometimes
for X reasons, it slips away of our hands
and we feel vulnerable, powerless.

Can you relate to that?
That overwhelming sensation we feel when
something doesn’t work out the way we expected it,
the way we wanted it to be.

Yes, it can be scary but the truth is, it is only temporary
and you can get back even more powerful from it if
you decide to do So.

Now, let’s get to the juice….

What you need to know if you want to take back your personal power

It all comes down to 2 words:

Success & Failure.

Failure is the result of failing to stay consistent and committed,
failing to follow through our goals and not giving our 110%

Success -on the other hand- is the result keeping consistent and
staying committed, following our goals and breaking through
the limits that used to stop us.

So if you really want to change things in your life,
YOU NEE TO TAKE ACTION. Because it is a combination of
these little successes what create the life you want, a life YOU OWN.

So, HOW do You Start? What Steps do you need to take?

Let’s see… yesterday we spoke about the 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life?
In there I mentioned that one of those those pillars is Your Attention, Your FOCUS

 

Your Personal power comes from FOCUSING on what you WANT to achieve
and taking DAILY ACTION towards it.  And it is a sum of those small steps,
of that “small” progress that adds up and can TOTALLY TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE.

A Journey of a Thousand miles begins with one single step wealthypreneurs lao tzu

To reinforce it again, ANYTHING YOU FOCUS on
a CONSISTENT BASIS – whatever it is- you will achieve,

So here, I’ll bring back again what type of Language are you using?
Are you using words on your favour or against yourself?

Remember, you have the ULTIMATE POWER to live the life you DESIRE.
Something powerful that I heard was:

“Instead of focusing on how to make a living, focus on how you can DESIGN the life you want.”

It is not about luck, or having the skills or talents.
Because some people can have all of the skills they need to succeed in a certain area
but they do not use them, they don’t work with them. They stay stagnant

Whereas for example, when I started working online, I had no “online skills”
and all I knew about the internet was how to do some research on my
favourite Medical Journals, send emails and facebook. I didn’t even know
what was instagram!

But I WORKED on a CONSISTENT BASIS and I am COMMITTED to LEARN
and develop the skills I Needed. And, as many of other successful online
entrepreneurs I know, I have become my own boss by  working online.

It is THE SAME with any other are of your life, I said before….

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve”

See, SUCCESS comes from INSPIRATION or DESPERATION.

If you look at the people who is the most successful in any area you choose,
they were either absolutely INSPIRED to succeed and thrive, to win that nobel prize,
to win the oscar, to win that race, to earn that promotion, to succeed in the
stock market, etc..etc..
Or, they were absolutely DESPERATE to get out of their current situation at that time,
they were sick and tired to struggle financially, sick and tired of living paycheck to paycheck,
or depending upon others, being unable to provide to their families the life they deserve,
or maybe desperate to get out of that awful job with an stupid boss and totally desperate to
work from home, or travel the world…..

Did you notice something??

Either way, INSPIRED or DESPERATE, use both emotions as a MOTIVATION,
as a MOTOR to improve, to be better, to demand more from yourself that anyone
else could ever expect, to THRIVE.

So Get uncomfortable my friend and decide to make a change.

Another  tip that can help you as well is studying, self-education,
find a role model, fill your mind with useful knowledge and apply it.
Because, no matter what you have been through, no matter what
has happened to you in the past, no matter the mistakes you made

YOU ARE WORTH WAY MORE THAN YOU THINK and
YOU DESERVE A LIFE OF HAPPINESS AND FULFILLMENT.

Remember, The past does not equal the future.

The 4 Crucial Steps to TAKE BACK YOUR PERSONAL POWER

  1. KNOW YOUR OUTCOME
    The clearer you are into knowing exactly what you want,
    the clearer you get into knowing your outcome.
    REMEMBER, CLARITY IS POWER .
    You must get focus in what you want and the result you want from it.
    Once you have it, imagine it to detail, and FOCUS in it.
    Ask yourself,  What is the out come I want?
    How achieving this outcome is going to influence my life?
    What is useful about this? What is the use of this? how can I use it?
  2. DECIDE TO TAKE ACTION & DO SO:
    Everyday, take the steps to move towards the achievement of your
    goals. START TODAY, because there is no other day than “Today”
    and your present actions. Someday in the future is the result of what you do TODAY,
    of what you are doing NOW.
    Make a decision that you are willing to push yourself to the next level,
    demand more from yourself than anybody would expect.

    If for any reason you feel fear, fear to not succeed well, guess what….
    FAIL FORWARD
    fail harder robert kiyosaki wealthypreneurs

  3. LEARN FROM YOUR ACTIONS,
    Pay attention and notice what you  learn from the actions you take.
    Pay attention to what is working or not. Are those actions
    getting you closer or further from your goal?
  4. BE FLEXIBILE:
    So this is what I mean when I say BE FLEXIBLE:   if after paying attention
    to your actions you see that they are not getting you closer to your goal,
    or they are not giving you the results you want, then CHANGE THINGS.
    Change your approach, Try something else, think outside the box and IMPROVE :)IF WHAT YOUR ARE DOING THAT NOT WORK, TRY SOMETHING ELSE. CHANGE YOUR APPROACH

Now you’ll probably  be wondering…. HOW Often do IT try?
The answer is…. UNTIL YOU SUCCEED.

losers quit winners fail until they succeed wealthypreneurs robert kiyosaki

To make a recap, To take back your PERSONAL POWER
you need to take these 4 crucial steps:

  1. Know your outcome and have it crystal clear in your mind.
  2. Take consistent action to achieve your outcome.
  3. Pay attention to your actions & learn from them and,
  4. Have the flexibility to change your actions when necessary in order to get you closer to achieving your outcome.

 

Remember, Your personal power is a result of the little achievements
or successes you have accomplished.

And if you don’t know where to start well…. Find a role model.
Someone who is exactly where you want to be,
learn about them, study their success, pay attention to the good
and the mistakes they made.

Once you start doing that, you will find a patternon their behaviour,
on their mindset. And it is then when you will follow those steps.
You don’t need to reinvent the wheel and go through trial and error.
Save yourself some time and pains, wise people also learn from the experience of others.

Finally, failure can be your best friend. Actually, the greatest successful
people in the world are people who have been through so much success
and failure that it grow them into a whole new level of success.

LEARN from your mistakes, and take that step forward.
Train your mind to look for answers and solutions,
develop healthy habits, feed your mind with powerful knowledge and
finally, TAKE MASSIVE CONSISTENT ACTION.

Finally, before I wrap up this post, I propose an exercise for you
What are those 3 things that you have been pushing away over the last
couple of hours, days, weeks, months… even years.

What are they?
You know what they  are….
Perhaps is to start exercising, or finishing that homework
or stop smoking, or cleaning up your room.

No matter what is it, commit to do them and Start gaining
your personal power NOW.

That’s all for today folks, I’ll see you tomorrow and hey!
If you find this blogpost inspiring, if it resonates with you or
with anyone you know then share it with them and let’s spread the
word to help more people take back their personal power, their lives!

Love & Light,

~Ameli.

Success result of good judgement, good judgement is result of experience, experience is result of bad judgement. (Anthony Robbins)

 

The 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life

The 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life – Countdown to Bali day 2

 

My heart is beating super fast…
You know that feeling you get when You KNOW
something EPIC is about to happen??

Well that’s exactly how I feel :D!

My trip to Bali is getting closer and closer each day,
and I just can’t be excited enough! I’m not there yet
and I feel like I’m already transforming…

Bali Countdown Ameli Wealthypreneurs Unstoppable Transformation Mastermind Unstoppable Mastermind extraordinary life

 

Now let me ask you a question, when was
the last time you felt Amazing?

When was the last time you felt like a Rockstar?

How about you could feel like that everyday,
at anytime, at any place, no matter What.

Want to know the Formula to an Extraordinary Life?

Well the formula to have an extraordinary life is actually simple,
it goes like this:

An Extraordinary Life is a result of an extraordinary MINDSET and an extraordinary way of looking at the world.

The Key to an Extraordinary MINDSET

It all depends of your input andhow you see things happening around you,
whether  they seem to be positive o negative. See, we live in two worlds:

  • Our external world
  • Our internal world.

In Your External World, things happen, and sometimes there are things
that are out-of-your-control.

In Your Internal World, things happen and You control  your response to THOSE things.

In other words, it is not where you live physically, it’s where you live internally and how you CHOOSE to LIVE.

The Internal world -which you can control – is key to your extraordinary mindset, to your extraordinary life.

And…

What do You need to “control” your internal world?

There are basically 3 pillars that are going to help you control your internal world
and handle the situations in your external world . These will lead you to totally
TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE.

These pillars are:

  1. Your emotions & your physical body
  2. Your Focus & beliefs
  3. The language you use.

 

  • Your Emotions & Physical Body

Remember this: eMOTION comes from MOTION. YOU NEED TO MOVE

When you think about it, it’s actually common sense.
a. Remember those moments when you are SUPER HAPPY, EXCITED, PUMPED UP,
CONFIDENT, when you know YOU-GOT-THIS
What is your posture? What’s your voice tone?
You speak louder, with more confidence, your physical posture is upright, with a straight back
Does the term: BODY LANGUAGE comes along?? Ding ding ding ding  😉

b. Now also remember this, what happens to those things that DON’T move.
Who are stagnant, quiet, rigid, inflexible? They are dead! or about to die.
So the less you move, the less you feel, the less alive you are.

To relate with an example, I remember when I was feeling down,
laying in bed, still, quiet… it was horrible! Even when sometimes
I was just reading I mean, reading is cool, I love it!
But if you don’t move, it just gets boring!

So I would jump out of bed, and go out for a walk, to take some sunshine
to enjoy the views, and feelimg greateful for the wonderful things around.

Exercising will get you on the right mood and mindset, it will lift you up
and actually thereis a hormonal game going on when you exercise and,
to make it simple your “happy”hormones LOVE it when you exercise 🙂

So know you get it??

Just  MOVE !  🙂

Movement = Positive Emotions = Better  Life.

“The Quality of our life is the quality of the consistent emotions
that you experience”

  • Your Focus & Beliefs

 Remember the saying “” Energy flows where attention goes”?
Attention = Focus

And whatever we focus on we tend to feel whether it is true or not.

Let me explain, Imagine you are at the movies, watching a horror movie,
it’s all dark and you are focused on teh screen, on what is going to happen next
and then, all of a sudden BOOM! this spooky monster shows up and makes you jump
out of your sit!. And for a fraction of a second you feel this fear!

On the other hand, imagine you are at one of those 3D roller coaster simulators.
You jump in, the music pumps you up, everyone is excited and having lots of
fun! And then, it comes the time to go through what I call it “the free fall”
and you feel that pressure in your stomach when you want to scream but you can’t,
you are having the time of your life and you are feeling incredibly happy.

SO…

Were any of those situation REAL?
Technically… NO
But they felt as REAL.

WHY?
Because you FOCUSED on them, and whatever you focus on you are going to feel
because your brain can not tell teh difference between something you focus on
or vividly imagine vs something that you are actually -physically- experiencing.

In conclusion, you can change how you feel according on what YOU CHOOSE to Focus on.

For example, instead of focusing on a temporary setback or challenge (commonly known as problems),
Focus on the SOLUTION. ask yourself the right questions, and with that comes….

  • Your language

Use your words to YOUR ADVANTAGE. What we say has so much power over us
and most of people don’t even realize it!. Specially when we say phrases with
intensity and emotion –also known as INCANTATIONS–  we actually believe them,
our subconscious mind believes them.

There are 2 types of Incantations, Positive and Empowering ones and Negative or Disempowering ones.
Most of people has a tendency to repeat the Negative Ones,
but I know that from now on you will focus on the positive ones 🙂

For example, you can start replacing …

– “This is too much, I can’t hand find a solution” for:  “HOW CAN I solve this?”
– “I’m feeling stuck” for  “WHAT CAN I DO to make things better?”
– “I feel sad” for “I choose to feel better everyday”

I know it may sound silly or crazy, but YOU NEED TO SAY THIS THINGS as if they already happen, be and feel grateful for them as if they were already happening :)!

To make a quick RECAP

  1. BE AWARE of yourself and how you choose to react to certain circumstances around you.
  2. FOCUS on the positives, turn around negatives for Positives. There is always something to learn out of what happens to us and hey! everyone has problems, life would be super boring and lame if everything was perfect.
  3. TAKE SOME TIME TO YOURSELF, in order to combine the 3 pillars we have previously discussed, you need to dedicate some time for YOURSELF. You can start with 15 min a day, and then scale up to 30 min or even an hour a day and make it your hour of power!.

So now you know it:
MOVE, do some exercise; while you walk or run FOCUS on the positives, dedicate at least 5 min of your routine to feeling GRATEFUL for the things around you, for being alive; after you feel grateful take some time to visualize how you want your life to be, and once again feel grateful for it as if it would be happening and finally, do some INCANTATIONS while you run,
do it out loud or in your mind (although out loud works way better!)

Some of the ones I Use are:
“All I need is within me now”

“Everyday in everyway I’m getting stronger and stronger”
“Everyday in everyway I’m feeling happier and happier”

And when I’m running an uphill and d feel like quitting
“every day and on every step I’m feeling stronger and stronger”
“ever day and with every breath I getting leaner and leaner”
“All the strenght I need is within me now”
“All the power I need is within me now”

All of these steps are part of my daily routine now, and I can tell you
my life is transforming, not only mine but my relationships and
everything in my life is getting better and better 🙂

You choose your words, apply these techniques with constance,
commit to them as if you were training for a competition,
studying for a big exam or preparing for a presentation and
I can GUARANTEE you that You will have an EXTAORDINARY LIFE!

Remember, YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY CHOICE ON HOW YOU FEEL

So…How do you choose to feel today??  🙂

Love & Light,

~Ameli.

decide to live an extraordinary-life

PS: After following this tips on a daily basis, a main factor that is also allowing me to live an extraordinary Life is the ability to run my own business online. To know exactly how I do it and , then just >> click this link<< and meet me there 🙂

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