What do you think it is Your Personal Power?
Your personal Power is your inner ability to
TAKE ACTION and produce results.
It is a power that lives within You and ignites
at certain times of your life, leading you to
achieve the results you want so bad.
See, we all have it within us but sometimes
for X reasons, it slips away of our hands
and we feel vulnerable, powerless.
Can you relate to that?
That overwhelming sensation we feel when
something doesn’t work out the way we expected it,
the way we wanted it to be.
Yes, it can be scary but the truth is, it is only temporary
and you can get back even more powerful from it if
you decide to do So.
Now, let’s get to the juice….
What you need to know if you want to take back your personal power
It all comes down to 2 words:
Success & Failure.
Failure is the result of failing to stay consistent and committed,
failing to follow through our goals and not giving our 110%
Success -on the other hand- is the result keeping consistent and
staying committed, following our goals and breaking through
the limits that used to stop us.
So if you really want to change things in your life,
YOU NEE TO TAKE ACTION. Because it is a combination of
these little successes what create the life you want, a life YOU OWN.
So, HOW do You Start? What Steps do you need to take?
Let’s see… yesterday we spoke about the 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life?
In there I mentioned that one of those those pillars is Your Attention, Your FOCUS
Your Personal power comes from FOCUSING on what you WANT to achieve
and taking DAILY ACTION towards it. And it is a sum of those small steps,
of that “small” progress that adds up and can TOTALLY TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE.
To reinforce it again, ANYTHING YOU FOCUS on
a CONSISTENT BASIS – whatever it is- you will achieve,
So here, I’ll bring back again what type of Language are you using?
Are you using words on your favour or against yourself?
Remember, you have the ULTIMATE POWER to live the life you DESIRE.
Something powerful that I heard was:
“Instead of focusing on how to make a living, focus on how you can DESIGN the life you want.”
It is not about luck, or having the skills or talents.
Because some people can have all of the skills they need to succeed in a certain area
but they do not use them, they don’t work with them. They stay stagnant
Whereas for example, when I started working online, I had no “online skills”
and all I knew about the internet was how to do some research on my
favourite Medical Journals, send emails and facebook. I didn’t even know
what was instagram!
But I WORKED on a CONSISTENT BASIS and I am COMMITTED to LEARN
and develop the skills I Needed. And, as many of other successful online
entrepreneurs I know, I have become my own boss by working online.
It is THE SAME with any other are of your life, I said before….
“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve”
See, SUCCESS comes from INSPIRATION or DESPERATION.
If you look at the people who is the most successful in any area you choose,
they were either absolutely INSPIRED to succeed and thrive, to win that nobel prize,
to win the oscar, to win that race, to earn that promotion, to succeed in the
stock market, etc..etc..
Or, they were absolutely DESPERATE to get out of their current situation at that time,
they were sick and tired to struggle financially, sick and tired of living paycheck to paycheck,
or depending upon others, being unable to provide to their families the life they deserve,
or maybe desperate to get out of that awful job with an stupid boss and totally desperate to
work from home, or travel the world…..
Did you notice something??
Either way, INSPIRED or DESPERATE, use both emotions as a MOTIVATION,
as a MOTOR to improve, to be better, to demand more from yourself that anyone
else could ever expect, to THRIVE.
So Get uncomfortable my friend and decide to make a change.
Another tip that can help you as well is studying, self-education,
find a role model, fill your mind with useful knowledge and apply it.
Because, no matter what you have been through, no matter what
has happened to you in the past, no matter the mistakes you made
YOU ARE WORTH WAY MORE THAN YOU THINK and
YOU DESERVE A LIFE OF HAPPINESS AND FULFILLMENT.
Remember, The past does not equal the future.
The 4 Crucial Steps to TAKE BACK YOUR PERSONAL POWER
- KNOW YOUR OUTCOME –
The clearer you are into knowing exactly what you want,
the clearer you get into knowing your outcome.
REMEMBER, CLARITY IS POWER .
You must get focus in what you want and the result you want from it.
Once you have it, imagine it to detail, and FOCUS in it.
Ask yourself, What is the out come I want?
How achieving this outcome is going to influence my life?
What is useful about this? What is the use of this? how can I use it?
- DECIDE TO TAKE ACTION & DO SO:
Everyday, take the steps to move towards the achievement of your
goals. START TODAY, because there is no other day than “Today”
and your present actions. Someday in the future is the result of what you do TODAY,
of what you are doing NOW.
Make a decision that you are willing to push yourself to the next level,
demand more from yourself than anybody would expect.
If for any reason you feel fear, fear to not succeed well, guess what….
- LEARN FROM YOUR ACTIONS,
Pay attention and notice what you learn from the actions you take.
Pay attention to what is working or not. Are those actions
getting you closer or further from your goal?
- BE FLEXIBILE:
So this is what I mean when I say BE FLEXIBLE: if after paying attention
to your actions you see that they are not getting you closer to your goal,
or they are not giving you the results you want, then CHANGE THINGS.
Change your approach, Try something else, think outside the box and IMPROVE :)IF WHAT YOUR ARE DOING THAT NOT WORK, TRY SOMETHING ELSE. CHANGE YOUR APPROACH
Now you’ll probably be wondering…. HOW Often do IT try?
The answer is…. UNTIL YOU SUCCEED.
To make a recap, To take back your PERSONAL POWER
you need to take these 4 crucial steps:
- Know your outcome and have it crystal clear in your mind.
- Take consistent action to achieve your outcome.
- Pay attention to your actions & learn from them and,
- Have the flexibility to change your actions when necessary in order to get you closer to achieving your outcome.
Remember, Your personal power is a result of the little achievements
or successes you have accomplished.
And if you don’t know where to start well…. Find a role model.
Someone who is exactly where you want to be,
learn about them, study their success, pay attention to the good
and the mistakes they made.
Once you start doing that, you will find a patternon their behaviour,
on their mindset. And it is then when you will follow those steps.
You don’t need to reinvent the wheel and go through trial and error.
Save yourself some time and pains, wise people also learn from the experience of others.
Finally, failure can be your best friend. Actually, the greatest successful
people in the world are people who have been through so much success
and failure that it grow them into a whole new level of success.
LEARN from your mistakes, and take that step forward.
Train your mind to look for answers and solutions,
develop healthy habits, feed your mind with powerful knowledge and
finally, TAKE MASSIVE CONSISTENT ACTION.
Finally, before I wrap up this post, I propose an exercise for you
What are those 3 things that you have been pushing away over the last
couple of hours, days, weeks, months… even years.
What are they?
You know what they are….
Perhaps is to start exercising, or finishing that homework
or stop smoking, or cleaning up your room.
No matter what is it, commit to do them and Start gaining
your personal power NOW.
That’s all for today folks, I’ll see you tomorrow and hey!
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word to help more people take back their personal power, their lives!
Love & Light,
Success result of good judgement, good judgement is result of experience, experience is result of bad judgement. (Anthony Robbins)