77 ‘Rich Dad, Poor Dad’ quotes by Robert Kiyosaki.

Have you read Rich Dad, Poor Dad from Robert Kiyosaki?

The first time I read “RichDad, Poor Dad”, it was probably
between my 14 or 15’s I LOVE reading and this kind of
books were always part of our shelves thanks to mum.

Mum always ensure that we feed our minds with valuable
information besides what I learnt at school, I was a curious
little girl and she always allowed me to express myself
and respected my own –sometimes weird– opinions.

Oh mum, you always gave me the right foundation for my success.

I guess I was being a wealthypreneur without even knowing
what being a wealthypreneur meant back then.

Ok, let’s get back on track! :P… To be honest, it has already
been 12 years since I read it  for the first time and I couldn’t
remember much.

Since last year up until now I’ve listened to the “rich dad, poor dad”
audiobook probably about 10 times, and just recetly I decided
to buy the book again and read it. This time, in english.
(FYI, I’m from Peru so the first time I read it, it was in Spanish)

I started reading the book 2 days ago, and I don’t wanna finish it!
One of my rules is listen to an audio for about 1 hr and read for
about 1 hour. I usually do this right after my morning meditation,
as soon as I wake up. It is one of my rituals.

So yes, you might be saying… Ameli, you spend 2 hours reading
and listening to audios?… 2 HOURS??!!!
YES,  and I call this Investing in myself. I know that my mindset
and my time are my biggest asset so I choose to invest in them
to then, apply what I know not only in businesses, but also in
my life. Nowadays time for me is not a problem anymore as I am
a full time online entrepreneur so I can distribute my time as I please.
Of course, I get distracted sometimes!

Now before I say anything else, I’ll share with you some of
my favourite and …

Powerful quotes from “Rich Dad, Poor Dad”

#1

“One dad would say: “The love for money is the root of all evil”. The other one, “The LACK of  money is the root of all evil”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#2

“Learn  to Manage Risk”  (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#3

“There is a difference between being poor and being broke. Broke is temporary, and poor is eternal”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#4

“Take it or leave it.  I’ve got too much work to do to waste my time. If you can’t make up your mind decisively, then you;ll never learn to make money anyway. OPPORTUNITES COME AND GO. Being able to know when to make a quick decisions is an important skill” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#5  For when you blame your boss or someone else about situations in YOUR LIFE

“You’d Best Change your point of view. Stop blaming me, thinking I’m the problem. If you think I’m the problem, then you have to change me. If you realize that you ‘re the problem, then you can change yourself,  learn something and grow wiser. Most people want everyone else in the world to change but themselves. Let me tell you, it’s easier to change yourself than everyone else”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#6 

“The avoidance of money  is just as psychotic as being attached to money” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#7 For those moments when emotions like fear or anxiety seem to gain control…

“Emotions are what make us human. Make us real. The word ’emotion’ stands for energy in motion. Be truthful about your emotions, and use your mind and emotions in your favour, not against yourself. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#8

“‘Will a job be the best solution to this fear (the fear of not having enough money) over the long run?’ In my opinion, the answer is ‘no’. Especially when you look over a person’s lifetime. A job is really a short-term solution to a long-term problem” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#9

“I want to teach you to master the power of money. Not ne afraid of it. And they don’t teach you that in school. If you don’t learn it, you become a slave to money”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#10

“Once a person stops searching for information and knowledge of one’s self, ignorance sets in. That struggle is a moment-to-moment decision- to learn to open or close one’s mind.” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#11

“Unfortunately for many people, school is the end, not the beginning” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#12 Understanding assets and liabilities:

“Rich people acquire assets. The poor and middle class acquire liabilities they think are assets” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#13

“An asset puts money in your pocket. A liability takes money from your pocket” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#14 Are you in a debt?, keeep this in mind…

“If you find yourself in a hole. Stop digging” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#15

“Mind your own business. Financial struggle is often directly the result of people working all their life for someone else. Many people will have nothing at the end of their working days”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#16About Professions, Businesses and your Career….

“There is a big difference between your profession and your business. I often ask people “What is your business?” And they will say “Oh, I’m a banker”. Then, I ask them if they own the bank? And they usually respond “No, I work there” (…)  A problem with school is that you often become what you study (…) The mistale in becoming what you study is that too many people forget to mind their own business. They spend their lives minding someone else’s business and making that person rich” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

ROBERT KIYOSAKI QUOTES RICH DAD POOR DAD, MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS, WEALTHYPRENEURS

#17

“When I say mind your own business, I mean to build and keep your asset column strong”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#18

“We all have tremendous potential and we all are blessed with gifts. Yet, the one thing that hold us back is some degree of self-doubt” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#19

“In the real world outside of academics, something more than just grades is required (…) This factor, whatever it is labeled, ultimately decides one’s future more than school grades ” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#20

“Often, in the real world is not the smart that get ahead, but the bold” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#21

“I’d rather be welcoming change than dreading change”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#22

“Land was wealth 300 years ago. So the person who owned the land owned the wealth. Then, it was factories and production, and America rose to dominance. TODAY, it is information. And the person who has the most timely information owns the wealth” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#23 For people who refuse to change…

“Old ideas are their biggest liability. It is a liability simply because they fail to realize that while that idea or way of doing something was an asset yesterday, yesterday is gone”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#24

“Rich people are often creative and take calculated risks”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#25 – Reasons to increase your financial intelligence…

“Few people realize that luck is created. Just as money is. And if you want to be luckier and create money instead of working hard, then your financial intelligence is important. If you are the kind of person who is waiting for the “right” thing to happen, you might wait for a long time. It’s like waiting for all the traffic lights to be green for five miles before starting the trip”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#26

“The single most powerful asset we all have is our mind. If it’s trained well, it can create enormour wealth (…) An untrained mind can also create extreme poverty that lasts lifetimes by teaching it to their families” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

ROBERT KIYOSAKI QUOTES RICH DAD POOR DAD,  YOUR MIND IS YOUR BIGGEST ASSET, WEALTHYPRENEURS

#27

“So why develop your financial genius? Only you can answer that (…) I develop my financial IQ because I want to participate in the fastest game and the biggest game in the world. (…) That is why I invest in my financial intelligence, developing the most powerful asset I have. I want to be with people moving boldly forward. I do not want with those left behind.”  (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#28

“Simple math and common sense is all that is needed to do well financially”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#29

“Great opportunities are not seen with your yes, they are seen with your mind. Most people never get wealthy because they are not trained financially to recognize opportunities right in front of them (…) To find an opportunity that everyone else has missed. You see with your mind what others miss with their eyes”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#29 – Taking the road to financial freedom…

“Always remember to have fun. This is only a game. Sometimes you win and sometimes you learn. But have fun. Most people never win because they are more afraid of losing. That is why I found school so silly. In school we learn that mistakes are bad, and we are punished for making them. Yet, if you look at the way humans are designed to learn, we learn by making mistakes. We learn to walk by falling down. If we never fell down, we would never walk. The same is true for learning to ride a bike. (…) The same is true for getting rich. Unfortunately, the main reason most people are not reach is because they are terrified of losing. Winners are not afraid of losing. But losers are. Failure is part of the process of success. People who avoid failure also avoid success” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki).

#30

  “It is what you know that is your greatest wealth. It is what you do not know that is your greatest risk. There is always risk, so learn to manage risk instead of avoid it.”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

 #31 – What is financial Intelligence?

 “Financial intelligence is a synergy of accounting, investing, marketing and law. Combine those four technical skills and making money with money is easier. “(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#32 – About a “JOB”

“Job is an acronym for Just Over Broke” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#33

“Workers work hard enough to not be fired, and owners pay just enough so that workers won’t quit” And if you look at the pay scales of most companies, again I would say there is a degree of truth in that statement” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#34

” The net results is that most workers never get ahead. They do what they’ve taught to do: “get a secure job.” Most workers focus on working for oay and benefits that reward them in the short term, but is often disastrous in the long run” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

 #35 – Before choosing your career path…

“Instead I recommend to young people to seek work for what they will learn, more than what they will earn. Look down the road at what skills they want to acqure before choosing a specific profession and before getting trapped in the “Rat Race”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

 #36 – What is the Rat Race??

“Once people are trapped in the lifelong process of billpaying, they become like those little hamsters running around in those little metal wheels. Their little furry legs are spinning furiously, the wheel is turning furiusly, but come tomorrow morning, they’ll still be in the same cage: great job”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#37 – So, what to do??

“When I speak to adults who want to earn more money, I always recommend the same thing (…) Often I recommend joining a network marketing company, also called multilevel marketing, if they ant to learn sales skills. Some of these companies have excellent training programs that help people get over their fear of failure and rejection, which are the main reasons people are unsuccesful. EDUCATION is more valuable than money, in the long run”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#38

“The reason so many talented people are poor is because they focus on building a “better hamburguer” (using the example of McDonald’s) and know little to nothing about business systems” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#39

“My poor dad said, “you need to know a lot about one specialty.” My rich dad said, “you need to learn a little about a lot of things”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#40

“Poor dad wanted me to specialize. That was his view on how to be paid more. Even after being told by the governor of Hawaii that he could no longer work in state government (…) He never understood that the more specialized you become, the more you are trapped and dependent on that specialty”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#41

“The main management skills needed for success are: 1. The management of cashflow; 2, The management of systems (including yourself and time with family); 3. The management of people”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#42

“It is communication skills such as writing, speaking and negotiating that are crucial to a life of success” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#43

“Rich dad encouraged Mike and me to know a little about a lot. He encouraged us to work with people smarter than we were and to bring smart people together to work as a team. Today it would be called a synergy of professional specialties”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

 #44

“If you hate risk and worry…. start early”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#45

“The greatest reason for lack of financial success was because most people played it too safe. “People are so afraid of losing that they lose” were my rich dad’s words” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#46

“Rich dad knew that failure would only make him stronger and smarter”  (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#47

“Failure inspires winners and failure defeat losers. It is the biggest secret of winners”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#48

“The main reason that over 90 percent of the American publis struggles financially is because they play not to lose. They don’t play to win” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#49

“If you have little money and you want to be rich, you must first be “focused”, not “balanced”. If you look at anyone successful, at the start they were not balanced. Balanced people go nowhere. They stay in one spot. To make progress, you must first go unbalanced. Just look at how you make progress walking” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#50

“If you have any desire to be rich, you must focus. Put a lot of your eggs in a few baskets. Do not do what poor and middle-class people do: put thir few eggs in many baskets” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#51

“Staking the asset column is a high-attitude game.  It takes guts, patience and a great attitude toward failure. Losers aoid failing. And failure turns losers into winers”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#52

“How do you beat laziness? The answer is a little greed. IT’s that radio station WII-FM, which stands for ‘What’s In It-For Me?’ A person needs to sit and ask, “What’s in it for me if I’m healthy, sexy and good looking?”or “what would my life be like if I never had to work again?” Without that little greed, the desire to have something better, progress is not made. Our world progresses because we all desire a better life (…) So whenever you find yourself avoiding something you knwo you should be doing, then the only thing to ask yourself is “What’s in it for me?”Be a little greedy. It’s the best cure for laziness. ” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

 #53

“Do what you feel in your heart to be right -for you’ll be criticized anyway.  You’ll b damned if you do, and damned if you don’t “- Eleanor Roosevelt. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#54

“Arrogance is ego plus ignorance. (…) When you know you are ignorant in a subject, start educating yourself by finding an expert in the field or find a book on the subject”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#55

 “Most people simply buy investments rather than first invest in learning about investing” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#56

“Arrogant or critical people are often people with low se lf-steem who are afraid of taking risks”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#57

“I would say that one of the hardest things about wealth building is to be true to yourself and be willing to not go along with the crowd. (…) As we used to say as surfers: “There is always another way.”  People who hurry and catch a wave late usually are the ones who wipe out”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

 #58

“You become what you study” In other words be careful about what you study and learn, because your mind is so powerful that you become what you put in your head”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#59

“Put into action what you learn”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#60

“A lesson that I learned from my rich dad was that “the world push you around.” The world ushes people around not because other people are bullies, but because the individual lcks internal control and discipline. People who lack internal fortitude often become victims of those who have self-discipline”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#61 -Starting your own business?

“The three most important management skills to start your own business are: 1. Management of cashflow; 2. Management of people; 3. Management of personal time (…) The three matter in the way you live your life as an individual, or as part of a family, a business, a charitable organization, a city or a nation” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#62

“Use pressure to inspire your financial genious to come up with new ways of making more money and then  pay your bills. (…) The rich know that savings are only used to create more money, not to pay bills” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#63

“The real skill is to manage and pay well the people who are smarter than you in some technical area.(…) Why? Because if, and I do mean IF, the people are professionals, their services should make you money. And the more money they make, the more money I make (…) That is financial intelligence”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#64

 “Too often today, we focus  to borrowing money to get the things we want instead of focusing on creating money. One is easier in the short term, but harder in the long term (…) Remember, the easy road often becomes hard, and the hard road often becomes easy”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#65

“To be a master of money, you need to be smarter than it. Then money will do as it is told. It will obey you. Instead of being a slave to it, you will be the master of it. That is financial intelligence”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#66

“If you want something, you FIRST need to give” (…) Whenever you feel ‘short’ or in “need” of something, give what you want first and it will come back in buckets”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#67

“There are powers in this world that are much smarter than we are. You can get there on your own, but it’s easier with the help of powers to be. All you need to be is generous with what you have, and the powers will be generous to you” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#68

“Stop doing what you are doing. In other words, take a break and asses what is working and what is not working. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. Stop doing what is not working and look for something new to do”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#69

“Take responsibility for your finances or take orders all your life. You’re either a master of money or a slave to it” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#70

“Take Action! – Find someone who has done what you want to do, take classes and buy tapes (…) Action always beats inaction” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#71

“Profits are made when you buy, not when you sell”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#72

“Buy the pie and cut it in pieces (…) If you want to get richer, think bigger first”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#73

“Money is only an idea. If you want more money simply change your thinking. Every self-made person started small with an idea, then turned it into something big. It takes only a few dollars to start and grow into something big”. (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#74

“Education and wisdom about money are important. Start early. Buy a book. Go to a seminar. Practice. Start small” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#75

“It’s what is in your head what determines what is in your hands. Money is only an idea. There is a great book Think and Grow Rich. The tittle is not work hard and grow rich. Learn to have money work hard for you and your life will be easier and happier.”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

#76

“Today, don’t play it safe, play it smart”(Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

 #77

“Awaken the financial genious that lies within you. Your genious is waiting to come out” (Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki)

After 4 days reading this book again, I’ve to admit I felt
a bit bumped when Robert said “Thank You for reading this book”
it is such a good book and there is so much great info that
I didn’t want to finish it. But, at the same time… There are more
books to read and knowledge to acquire.

As You might very well understand now, Your mindset is your biggest asset
fill it with the right information. But also, it’s not only about new information
and learning but also about TAKING ACTION towards the new things
you learn.

I hope you understand that “Rich Dad, Poor Dad” it is not about
real estateor the share market.  Robert gives this as his examples because
it is his business and his passion and he knows how to play the game of money.

Whatever your career is, and the path you have chosen – or ar about to choose-
make sure you add in some of the skills Robert mentions all along his book
and that I’ve tried to quote in this post.

Remember… TAKE ACTION towards the opportunites in front of you!

That is  what I did to get out of my “rat race”, and now I’m able to work
from home -or wherever I happen to be- from my computer, build my
empire. It is normal to feel confused at the beginning, it is normal to feel
fear and it is normal to fail. Failure is the way to success and as long
as you Learn, it is not failure. So TAKE ACTION, do it for yourself
for the life you deserve and for what you want to achieve. I share some of the
the education I’ve acquired about building my own business,
marketing, branding, selling on my private facebook group that you can access for free.
So you can learn some vital steps to Succeed in business!

>> Click Here to access my private facebook group more << 

Btw, what was your favourite “Ridch Dad, Poor Dad” quote??
Remember to leave your thoughts in the comments below this
post and if you find this powerful quotes valuable, then go ahead
and share it with your friends :)!

Make it an Awesome day!

Love & Light,

~Ameli

 RICH DAD, POOR DAD, ROBERT KIYOSAKI QUOTES, WEALTHYPRENEURS, BE HAPPY AND RICH

Creating Lifetime Results Through Neuro-Associative Conditioning

Creating Lifetime Results Through Neuro-Associative Conditioning. (NAC) 

Yesterday we mentioned the power of  Neuro-Associations
and how they shape your decisions.

By now I am sure that the concepts of pain and pleasure  and how
they are key on the way we associate things are both clear in your mind.

If not, please I encourage you to review my previous post first,
they are under the category #Unstoppable Transformation,
alternatively you can just >> click here<<

Now,  I want to be clear with one thing: No matter what the
problem is, You are only going to CHANGE or create a lifetime
result ONLY if You DECIDE to do so. It is only then when your
emotions, what you feel, and your behaviour starts working in
our favour to create us the LIFETIME RESULTS we want.

So, as promised yesterday, today we are going to learn…

HOW TO USE  Neuro-Associative Conditioning (NAC) step-by-step.

There are 3 fundamental key-steps in the science of  Neuro-Associative
Conditioning (NAC), these are:

  1. Get Leverage on yourself.– This means that are at a point
    where you KNOW that something MUST change, that YOU
    MUST change IT and that YOU CAN change IT Right Now.
    And you get to the point where you feel that not changing
    would be terribly painful. and changing will give you pleasure.
  2. Interupts your limiting pattern of association. Every
    behaviour, belief, action, decision is linked or associated to
    either pain or pleasure. In this case, if it’s associated in a
    way that limits instead of helping you get closer to your goals.
    Do whatever it is necessary, whatever it takes to BAM!
    interrupt that association… In other words, Create a
    Pattern Interrupt, do something unexpected in order
    to create new results.
  3. Condition yourself to a new empowering association.
    Create a new association that empowers you.
    For example: What would the consequences of taking
    action meaan to you? What would be pleasure you’d gain?
    What consequences would you get withing the next 3,5 years,
    and howwould that change your life? How woiuld you feel
    emotionally, mentally, phisycally by knowing that you
    have achieved and succeeded in your goals?

Remember, repetition is KEY here and if you want to be successful,
You need to condition yourself for success each and every day,
by repetition until it is consistent, normal and part of your day to day.

Now, I know that, compared to my previous blogposts,  this is
a very brief one and very straight forwards. So, if you want to
understand this better or get some examples, I suggest visiting
the previous blogposts, go through the examples I Walk you
through, and use them, modify them, adapt them to suit your
own personal needs or experience.

See you on my next post :)!

~Ameli.

The Power of Neuro-Associations: Shaping Your Decisions

The Power of Neuro-Associations : Shaping your decisions

Hey there, welcome back , It’s great to “see you” here again :)!
Before I go onto explaining what are neuro-associations and how
they shape your decisions, I’ll refresh your mind with what we
have been covering over the last 3 days:

  1. How to Get to the edge and live with passion.
  2. The 3 pillars to living an Extraordinary Life
  3. The only ways that you can make a change in your life
    is to use your personal power to take action.
  4. What stops most people from taking action is fear of pain
    whether that pain is fear of failure, rejection, disappointment.
    We actually spoke in detail how PAIN and pleasure are the
    controlling forces of our lives
    .

So TODAY, we are going to talk about the neurological association

(neuro-association) and how humans (you,we,us –unless of course
you are an alien
:P)  create pre-programmed responses that may be
sabotaging your success

Any association of pain within your neurological system stops you
from taking on new challenges. If you associate pleasure with eating
chocolate or ice-cream then you will do it, but what do you think it
happens if you associate the feeling of being trapped with marriage????
How long do you think your marriage will last?

If you’ve always wanted to own a business and you haven’t done it
yet,is because you neuro-associate too much pain to it. So if you
want to start a new business, you have to change those neuro-associations.

For example, what would having a new business would mean to you?
What would it mena to your life? What would you get that you don’t
have now? What will you gain?

It is not about what it would mean intellectually but what would it
mean to you mentally? emotionally? what good positive feelings
would you get? How great would you feel when you talk about it?

There has to be PLEASURE in starting a business and PAIN in not doing so.

YOUR KEY NEURO-ASSOCIATIONS

What are those key neuro-associations?
How can we change the conditioned response to our
environment, so we can feel differently about eating
food when you are stressed? Or to stop thinking that
exercise is linked with pain.  And they are only going
to change once you change the conditioning feelings
about it. These pre-programmed links direct your life!
They direct your motivation, what you do and what you don’t do.

Thinking positive is not enough, you have to change
those neuro-associations and  every action you take
whatever it is, as tiny as it may seem– has a
consequence and effect in your life.

For every action, there is a reaction.
For every direction you head on, there is a destiny.

Remember,

There are neurological links that are associated with your
past that are controlling your present. So how do we look
back and find what these links are and how do we reprogram them?

Well, this is what you can do:

  1. To create a new neuro-association all you have to do is
    link a new emotion with that current neurological
    association that you do not like (exercise, writing,  dieting etc)
    and then
  2. All you have to do is get yourself to feel a positive, happy,
    once you are in that state link it to something you thought
    it was painful. Link it to it over and over again, repeat it .
    By repeating it you will get it.

For example. I do not enjoy routines. I am just not a person of
routines. Why? Because most of my life Ive always been following
a routine, I always wanted it all perfect, and for that I neede to learn
how to make things perfect, my way. I was an avid learner, so
every summer my mom would  subscribe me to advanced classes for
the year I was going to take. Then I loved Sports, so right after my
monday – saturday lessons, I’d go to the club, do some gymnastics,
train for my swimming competitions and do some tae-kwon do.
I was always busy, and mi life at my short 9 years old was very very
well structured. I had my own routine.

I think that is another reason why I loved being a doctor, because
everything had to be perfect for my patients, and I was ALWAYS BUSY,
to a point that I literally had no life. I replace my fun times in the pool,
at the gym, by strangely enjoying the stress of the ER and loving every
single surgery.

BUT THEN, at my 18’s I started travelling the world, and my perception
totally changed. All of a sudden, I noticed that I did not neede to have
an extremely structured routine. I felt like a bird out od a cage whitout
even knowing I was living on a cage. It was by this time that I was on my
second year of Med School. And for the following years, there was no summer
or holiday that I wouldn’t grab my backpack and strart travelling,
searching for adventures, discovering new places and meeting new
people.

ALL of a Sudden returning back to Lima (Peru) turned into a pain
because I wanted to keep travelling. My love for medicine was there,
but …. I wanted to keep traveling!

Do you see the pattern there? I associated “routine” to be trapped in a room.
I am 27 now, and after leaving my career as a Medical Doctor,
my life totally changed. All of that structure I was used to was gone,
I didn’t need to wake up and leave home before the sunrise, etc etc….
and to be honest, at first, it was nice and I enjoyed it but,
it took me a while to get used to it. Time passed, I came across
developing and owning my own online business,  and
I knew that I had to get back into action to get things DONE.

But somehow I would find ways to procrastinate, sometimes
I wouldn’t even notice it, and when I did I would just tell to myself
that I am not a person of routines anymore because they made me
feel trapped……

But then, I also knew that all of the highly successful business
professionals have routines, healthy successful routines, or
“successful rituals”which comes down to discipline, having
the discipline to developing healthy habits.

THEN one day, I realize that yet again, I was following
a routine, a routine with a negative pattern of procrastination.
Day by day, I was causing me more pain by not taking action,
I was having a negative routine that was leading me to failure.
And I wanted to succeed.

Guess what?? That was a SHIFT. A TOTAL SHIFT. 

So my opinion on routines  automatically changed and I started
associating routines with success. Which in fact makes total sense
when I trained for my swimming competitions and follow my routines
I’d  always win, When I attended my courses and study I would get
great great and honours.  NOW I associated my new routine
to having the ability to creating the life I love, it was the shortcut
I needed to create a life of Freedom. I want success and that success
makes me feel good and routines are part of that success,
so I should feel great about carrying out some kind of a routine :).

Another example is dieting. Recently I started a diet,  and one aspect
to losing weight is eating less calories and eating less calorie dense food.
I’ve always eat healthy, and I would prefer my delicious fruits and salads
rather than a piece of steak. I would different times on the day and I
had them at breakfast, midday, lunch, med-afternoon, dinner and
sometimes a bit before going to bed. So yeah, I ate like 6 times aday
and it was all fruits, veggies and heaps of water /green tea.

But when I move to New Zealand, and discovered other cultures foods.
I was just AMAZED. I have become a lover of indian food and also a
fan of rice (whereas in Peru I would probably eat it a couple of times a year)
I wasn’t used to have normal dinner like most of people normally do
and my partner would just have a huge piece of steak and eat heaps
because he’s a body builder…. Anyway, I got to a point where I could
eat as much as him. Like a whole pizza for myself only!

Then I noticed I was getting unfit, and I still remember the one day I had
for breakfast a sandwich like this: Cheese, chorizo on top with a fried egg
on top of the chorizo, covered by some more cheese melting down.
It looked delicious! But it was sooooo much fat that it got me sick,
my digestive sensitive is quite sensitive to fat, and for example I cannot
eat any tipe of hamburguers because they really make me sick.
Some chicken hamburguers are not too toxic. But still.
Anyway that day, I was full for the whole day, I Was feeling sick,
nauseous, burpy, with indigestion. I know this sounds like I was sick,
and NO I don’t have gallbladder stones. Actually my gallbladder looks
beautifully clean. IT’s just that my body cannot tolerate eating too much fat
– I think it’s because most of my life I’ve eaten healthy fresh veggies & fruits-

Ok, getting back to my point now, as you can naturally guess
more carbs, more steak, more chocolate indulgence and  kiwi
goodies. I started to gain weight and my jeans shrinked! LOL

The one night I was sitting in bed with my partner next
to me while watching a movie and I started getting some
cravings.
It was hard to fight the urge to get up and go to the kitchen.
At one point I looked over to him and said:
“I am going to make something to eat”.

He is a VERY GOOD accountability partner and quickly
asked me why. After telling him that  I was hungry he
mentioned a single sentence that feels like it has changed
me forever.  He said:

 “Hunger is simply an indication that you are
achieving your goal so being hungry is good sign!’

WOW, I am achieving my goal and my body is telling me,
my body is congratulating me for getting closer to my goal!
ow awesome is that! So far from being starving, my body
is simply telling me that it is changing and it is happy :)!.

Now I have a new neurological response to feeling hungry
while dieting and this is actually associated with a feeling of
ACHIEVEMENT which is greatly powerful in achieving your goals!.

2) What emotions do you associate with the following?

  • Giving  ( Do not give so much of yourself that you do not take the time to enjoy receiving).
  • Drugs and alcohol
  • Police
  • Debt

You are always creating associations in your mind. When a
particular song comes on the radio it will take you back to that
amazing date you had, or that terrible place you use to work at.

Your brain is creating these neurological links ALL THE TIME.
These strong feelings can be linked to what is happening around you
at that moment.

For example, Imagine that one day when you were a child and
you were sick, you mum made you eat something which main
ingredient is cabbage and you did not feel like eating. But you
know, you have to eat to recover  the energy you lose while your
body is trying to battle the disease. So you eat,  but YOU HAD
to eat it. All of a sudden, you wind up vomiting.

You associate “cabbage” with feeling sick and vomiting,
the years pass, you have probably forgotten about that event
but somewhere in your subconscious mind it has been SAVED
and whenever you see cabbage , you don’t know why, but
you just can’t stand it.

That is a simple example of a negative neuro-association.

Now if you realize that vomiting had nothing to do with the poor
cabbage but with just the the natural process of a disease, and that
it is unreasonable to link cabbage with vomiting because the cabagge
had nothing to do with it. Then your patterns start to change!

Al of a sudden you can start linking cabbage with a new experience,
a delicious plate that gives you energy, new flavours, joy, satisfaction.

Does this sounds familiar to you? or do you know someone
who’s been through something similar?

Another example:

What happens when you see the blue and red flashing lights in your
review mirror, how do you feel about that??? Have you ever gotten a
speeding ticket? Do you get those emotions when you see those
flashing lights even when you know you have done nothing wrong?
This is another indication of neurological programming.

These associations can totally dis-empower us because we believe
that this feeling of emotion is the reality but in fact it might have
no bearing on our actual reality at all, it was simply an emotional
neurological link that was created due to an experience.

In my next blog post I am going to explain how you can change
these neurological associations. Just like Pavlov’s conditioning
the dogs. Whenever Pavlov rang a bell his dogs associated the
sound with food and Pavlov trained his dogs to make that
association and as Pavlov trained his dogs we can train our
neurological associations.

So, your assignment for today is:

  • Write down 3 associations that make your life more positive
    and 3 associations that are limiting your life

My positive associations

– Cigarettes take my breath away and I hate feeling ill.
– I am smart and have a good memory, that’s how I
became a doctor
– Vegetables & fruits are full of healthy vitamins, minerals,
fiber and make me feel INCREDIBLE.

My negative associations
– eating food makes me feel good.
– I am not good at making jokes or being funny
(I always laugh at my own laughs even before I’ve finish them LOL)

Now that you have read my post, what are some of YOUR
positive and negative associations?

Make sure to read my next blog about how to change
neurological association to improve your life.

Oh by the way, another word for neuro-associations is…
Neuro-Linguistic-Programming (NLP)-I’m sure you’ve heard a lot about this :)!

See you tomorrow!,
Au revoir

~Ameli.

Are you controlling your life or is life controlling you?

Thats right… Are you controlling your life or is your life controlling you?

I’m going to start this post by asking You
WHAT DRIVES YOU?
What is that motivation that steers you to do certain things?
or perhaps that stops you from doing certain things

See, yesterday we spoke about the 4 Crucial Steps to take
back your personal power
, and  if you haven’t read it or
checked  the video yet, then I suggest you stop reading
RIGHT NOW and go ahead watch the video I posted
on facebook  >>click here to watch the video<<

Did you watch the video??

The reason why I am emphasizing on you watching the video
is because you need the previous information in order to understand
correctly what I am saying now. I’m not saying you are silly or
something like that but it just goes like this:

Would you understand to multiply, without knowing how to sum??
or,
would you go run a marathon without doing any training?
would you invest any money on the stock market, without
understanding how does the stock market work?

No, because you obviously want to understand how things
work first before making a big decision. Right?

Well, the same principle applies here.
By reading this posts and watching my videos, you are filling
your mind with VALUABLE information. You are INVESTING
in yourself, but you want to do it in the correct way and that is
by starting from… The Beginning 🙂

So once again, here’s my video and post from yesterday
for you to take a look … 🙂
>> Ok Ameli, take me to yesterday’s video and post  <<

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Alright, let’s carry on … Now that you know what is your
personal power and how you can take it back with 4 crucial steps
let’s go a bit deeper…

THE FORCES BEHIND TAKING ACTION – OR NOT

Let’s face it, there is a lot of people in the world that wants to be successful
(whatever success means to you) people who wants to make a lot of money,
or make money online, people who wants to get that promotion or, ask that
special person to go out on a date, or maybe just go on a diet to lose some kilos.

Now that You know what it needs to be done in order to achieve your goals,
it seems easy, right? I mean it’s all about 1. knowing what you want and having
a clear vision of your outcome, 2. Taking the necessary Action towards achieving
your outcome, 3. Paying attention to your actions so you know if what you are
doing  is taking you closer or further from your goal and 4. Being Flexible enough
to modify and improve those actions so ultimately you get closer and closer to
achieving your outcome!.

I mean IT IS SIMPLE:

Know what you want, take action, know what is working out and
keep changing
until you have achieve the results you want.

Simple, Simple, simple!

But then if it is so simple why is it that a lot of people just can’t follow
through and stick to their goals? What is preventing them from taking action??

WHAT IS IT??

The answer is: FEAR, fear of failure, fear to being rejected,
fear of “being different”, fear of getting out of the norm,
or even fear of SUCCESS…

To make it clearer,

Our decisions and the way we do things are driven by:

  1. PAIN
  2. PLEASURE

These are the two controlling forces that are preventing you from
taking action. And you must have this clear in your mind:

EVERYTHING we do in life is based on our need to avoid pain or gain pleasure.

For example,

  • Let’s say that Jen is a very busy woman, she knows she’s been out
    of touch with her family and friends for a while. She knows that a simple
    call will solve it. But, one thing leads to the other and she gets caught up
    with work, emails, telephone calls, the gym, work, etc etc…
    She gets CAUGHT UP.

Another example:

  • Jon, he is a guy who is overwheight, he knows he has to go on a diet
    and eat healthier. He loves chocolate, big cheesy hamburgers and coke.
    That’s his deal, he’s got no time to cook, so McDonalds, BK, Pizza Hut,
    KFC –you name it–  will work out.
    He know  he has to eat healthier, and it would be easier if he organizes
    some healthy food and drinks some water instead of soda but then again
    there’s too much work, staying late  at the office, answering
    emails, phonecalls, getting stuck in traffic and.. Jon gets CAUGHT UP.

And my final example,

  • Have you ever left something up until the very  end or somehow have you
    found ways to push away whatever you know you HAVE TO do immediately,
    but then you manage ways to distract with other things?
    Yes,  I am talking about PROCRASTINATION.But then again you just push things for so long that you get to a point
    where you say “What the heck??”!”I better get this sh* done before
    they get worse!  And in a blink of an eye you do whatever it is
    necessary (TAKE ACTION) to get things DONE.
    This is procrastination reversing itself.

I mean, have you ever been there??

Now, can you relate to any of these examples in any-way?
Or  do you know someone that  you can relate to?
Yes? No? Just be honest with yourself.
In fact, I’ll be honest with you: I have, a lot of times.

Do you see what do the people in these examples have in common?

YES, They get CAUGHT UP.
They allow circumstances to drive  and manage their lives
instead of them managing their own life by controlling how
they respond to circumstances around them.  They have lost
their  personal power and they NEED to take it back!

So WHY do we procrastinate?

Simple, because we have the wrong impression and/or
perspective, and we think that by not taking action we
will experience less pain than by taking action.

We have the wrong idea in our minds!

Subconsciously what you are really thinking is that the
idea of taking action now is going to be more painful
than actually getting things done and dusted.

Have you EVER feel like that??
Just think about it!

And WHY does this happen?? Because you haven’t learn
to control these two forces: Your motivating forces of pain and pleasure.

Don’t get me wrong, it is in our human nature, it’s part of our
survival mechanism to avoid pain. And your brain is just going
to fight like crazy to prevent you from doing something that is
going to lead you to pain. BUT (yes, there’s always a but) it
is here when you need to shift your perception.

This is when you need to PAY ATTENTION to WHAT YOU
LINK the ideas of PAIN AND PLEASURE to.

Now you have clear that it is part of our nature to do things
that cause us less pain and more pleasure. But then if there
are 2 different circumstances that are going to cause pain and
you have to choose one, naturally, you are going to go for the
one that is less painful. Are you?

In conclusion:

THE NEED TO AVOID PAIN is a GREATER MOTIVATOR
THAN the DESIRE to GAIN PLEASURE.

CREATING SELF-AWARENESS

Now that you know about these 2 principles of PAIN & PLEASURE
You need to create self-awareness and CONTROL what
you  link these 2 principles to.

CHANGE what you link pain and what you link pleasure to.

Let me give you a simple example:

  • It’s that time of the year when you need to file your taxes,
    You have known for a whole year that the time will come
    again  and you knew that if you had things ready it would
    be easier to file your taxes. But you didn’t, you got caught up
    with other stuff in your life like…
    “Oh m I’m too tired now, I’ll do it tomorrow, I still have some time anyway” or,
    “Ugh, I don’t like doing that stuff…. I’ll do it some time” bla bla blaAt the end of the day, the time has passed and have you started
    receiving notifications that if you do not file your taxes
    within the next week you’ll be in deep deep trouble, you’ll
    have to pay some fines, and things will just get worse…It is at this point when you decide to TAKE ACTION & GET THINGS DONE

But, it could have been WAY easier!

Do you see what happened here?

You though that getting things done, actually filling a simple
form online was “painful”,  you thought in the “present” moment,
with short term results. But eventually, procrastinating
about it and “leaving things for later” had even worse
consequences that caused you a lot more “PAIN” and it
was only then when you decided to get things done.

BUT, what if you have thought the other way around?

Like, “Ok yes, I need to file my taxes, I’ll fill out the form
quickly, It is all clear and understandable anyway so then I’ll
have free time to do the things I really enjoy, doing things NOW
is going to save  me from worries, from having to pay fines and
going through unnecesary stress”.

Final Example,

  • If you are going through some financial struggle, things
    seem to work out for a while, everything is going great!
    But then all of a sudden, something happens and you start
    sabotaging yourself, just when you were having some  momentum.

WHY did this happen?

Because somewhere in your mind, you have the wrong idea
the money is bad, or as the media wants to make us think:
rich people takes advantage of poor people, and you are a lovely
person, you don’t want to take advantage of anyone,
You just want to help, inspire and serve other people or,
rich people doesn’t have time to be with their family so you just
decide to be poor to be with your family because you love them
and you care about them.

First of, ok the main reason why you are self-sabotaging yourself
is because you Love your family and you want to protect them,
you want to spend time with them. And that is beautiful!

But then again, do you see how you are causing more pain to
yourself and your family by not taking action? By stopping you
from succeeding and by denying your family and the people
you love the right to live the life all of you deserve?

Do you see how painful it is not having enough money to buy
some food for your family? Having to work endless hours at
minimum wage only for survival? Limiting yourself and your
family by making them go through more pain? A pain that they
DO NOT deserve at all…. When instead, if you could make
more money, like running your own online business and doing
whatever it takes to take action, you’d have the power to change
their lives.

You’d be providing them the joy to eat healthier, to spend more
family time together. Because if you decide to take action
and for example, you decide to build your own online business,
your legacy, not only you will have the money to take them on
holidays and save for your children’s health or for university,
but you will also have the time-freedom to BE WITH THEM
AT ALL TIMES, to make them happy, to live that life of
fulfillment that YOU and your family deserve..

Did you see what happened here? You CHANGED the FOCUS
to a POSITIVE OUTCOME, to Gaining more PLEASURE by
avoiding the real pain.

So ALL you need to do is SHIFT YOUR PERCEPTION  and
direct your FOCUS onto how not doing something is going
to be MORE PAINFUL than having to do so.

In other words: ASSOCIATE not taking action to being more painful
than actually doing it. Don’t wait until you’re out of time and
there’s so much pressure that you have to do something.
Save yourself from painful situations and just take ACTION!

USE this pain and pleasure principles to control situations
around you instead of having them controlling your life.

These principles work in ANY area of your life, whether it is
your personal life or your business life, whether if you are
finding it difficult to keep a relationship or struggling financially.

If you are sabotaging yourself someway  or another is because
deep deep deep into you, you are linking pain and pleasure to the wrong ideas.

HOW do you link pain and pleasure to the right ideas??

Well, First of all CONGRATULATIONS, because if you are
asking yourself that , it means that you are now AWARE of it
and that my friend is the biggest and most importnat step.

Now, what is next?
#2 is Asking yourself WHAT is it going to mean TAKING
ACTION? What results are you going to get? What pains
and pleasures are you gonna get from it?

#3 Ask your self what is it going to mean not taking action?
What is it going to be the results in your life? What pains
and pleasures are you going to get? What extra pain are you
going to gain by not taking action?

#4 What would taking action mean to you emotionally, physically,
mentally, Spiritually? What pleasure are you going to gain?How are
you going to feel?  Happy, Proud, More Confident, Stronger, Recognized, Admired…

Remember that YOU ARE ALWAYS IN CONTROL.

So decide to take control of your life now, choose what you FOCUS on,
and your behavior will steer in that direction, all by learning to
control pain and pleasure and what you choose to follow through.

What would you lose if you do not take action?
Are you preventing yourself from living an extraordinary life?

Do what is right for your life my friend, You deserve to live an
extraordinary life, you deserve a life of fulfillment so
shift your focus,decide to TAKE ACTION NOW, stop letting your
life controlling you and start controlling your life.

The World is YOUR OYSTER.

See you tomorrow on my next post,

Love & Light,

~Ameli.

Wealthypreneurs controlling pain and pleasure to control your life success anthony robbins

Take Back Your Personal Power: The 4 Crucial Steps

What do you think it is Your Personal Power?

Your personal Power is your inner ability to
TAKE ACTION and produce results.

It is a power that lives within You and ignites
at certain times of your life, leading you to
achieve the results you want so bad.

See, we all have it within us but sometimes
for X reasons, it slips away of our hands
and we feel vulnerable, powerless.

Can you relate to that?
That overwhelming sensation we feel when
something doesn’t work out the way we expected it,
the way we wanted it to be.

Yes, it can be scary but the truth is, it is only temporary
and you can get back even more powerful from it if
you decide to do So.

Now, let’s get to the juice….

What you need to know if you want to take back your personal power

It all comes down to 2 words:

Success & Failure.

Failure is the result of failing to stay consistent and committed,
failing to follow through our goals and not giving our 110%

Success -on the other hand- is the result keeping consistent and
staying committed, following our goals and breaking through
the limits that used to stop us.

So if you really want to change things in your life,
YOU NEE TO TAKE ACTION. Because it is a combination of
these little successes what create the life you want, a life YOU OWN.

So, HOW do You Start? What Steps do you need to take?

Let’s see… yesterday we spoke about the 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life?
In there I mentioned that one of those those pillars is Your Attention, Your FOCUS

 

Your Personal power comes from FOCUSING on what you WANT to achieve
and taking DAILY ACTION towards it.  And it is a sum of those small steps,
of that “small” progress that adds up and can TOTALLY TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE.

A Journey of a Thousand miles begins with one single step wealthypreneurs lao tzu

To reinforce it again, ANYTHING YOU FOCUS on
a CONSISTENT BASIS – whatever it is- you will achieve,

So here, I’ll bring back again what type of Language are you using?
Are you using words on your favour or against yourself?

Remember, you have the ULTIMATE POWER to live the life you DESIRE.
Something powerful that I heard was:

“Instead of focusing on how to make a living, focus on how you can DESIGN the life you want.”

It is not about luck, or having the skills or talents.
Because some people can have all of the skills they need to succeed in a certain area
but they do not use them, they don’t work with them. They stay stagnant

Whereas for example, when I started working online, I had no “online skills”
and all I knew about the internet was how to do some research on my
favourite Medical Journals, send emails and facebook. I didn’t even know
what was instagram!

But I WORKED on a CONSISTENT BASIS and I am COMMITTED to LEARN
and develop the skills I Needed. And, as many of other successful online
entrepreneurs I know, I have become my own boss by  working online.

It is THE SAME with any other are of your life, I said before….

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve”

See, SUCCESS comes from INSPIRATION or DESPERATION.

If you look at the people who is the most successful in any area you choose,
they were either absolutely INSPIRED to succeed and thrive, to win that nobel prize,
to win the oscar, to win that race, to earn that promotion, to succeed in the
stock market, etc..etc..
Or, they were absolutely DESPERATE to get out of their current situation at that time,
they were sick and tired to struggle financially, sick and tired of living paycheck to paycheck,
or depending upon others, being unable to provide to their families the life they deserve,
or maybe desperate to get out of that awful job with an stupid boss and totally desperate to
work from home, or travel the world…..

Did you notice something??

Either way, INSPIRED or DESPERATE, use both emotions as a MOTIVATION,
as a MOTOR to improve, to be better, to demand more from yourself that anyone
else could ever expect, to THRIVE.

So Get uncomfortable my friend and decide to make a change.

Another  tip that can help you as well is studying, self-education,
find a role model, fill your mind with useful knowledge and apply it.
Because, no matter what you have been through, no matter what
has happened to you in the past, no matter the mistakes you made

YOU ARE WORTH WAY MORE THAN YOU THINK and
YOU DESERVE A LIFE OF HAPPINESS AND FULFILLMENT.

Remember, The past does not equal the future.

The 4 Crucial Steps to TAKE BACK YOUR PERSONAL POWER

  1. KNOW YOUR OUTCOME
    The clearer you are into knowing exactly what you want,
    the clearer you get into knowing your outcome.
    REMEMBER, CLARITY IS POWER .
    You must get focus in what you want and the result you want from it.
    Once you have it, imagine it to detail, and FOCUS in it.
    Ask yourself,  What is the out come I want?
    How achieving this outcome is going to influence my life?
    What is useful about this? What is the use of this? how can I use it?
  2. DECIDE TO TAKE ACTION & DO SO:
    Everyday, take the steps to move towards the achievement of your
    goals. START TODAY, because there is no other day than “Today”
    and your present actions. Someday in the future is the result of what you do TODAY,
    of what you are doing NOW.
    Make a decision that you are willing to push yourself to the next level,
    demand more from yourself than anybody would expect.

    If for any reason you feel fear, fear to not succeed well, guess what….
    FAIL FORWARD
    fail harder robert kiyosaki wealthypreneurs

  3. LEARN FROM YOUR ACTIONS,
    Pay attention and notice what you  learn from the actions you take.
    Pay attention to what is working or not. Are those actions
    getting you closer or further from your goal?
  4. BE FLEXIBILE:
    So this is what I mean when I say BE FLEXIBLE:   if after paying attention
    to your actions you see that they are not getting you closer to your goal,
    or they are not giving you the results you want, then CHANGE THINGS.
    Change your approach, Try something else, think outside the box and IMPROVE :)IF WHAT YOUR ARE DOING THAT NOT WORK, TRY SOMETHING ELSE. CHANGE YOUR APPROACH

Now you’ll probably  be wondering…. HOW Often do IT try?
The answer is…. UNTIL YOU SUCCEED.

losers quit winners fail until they succeed wealthypreneurs robert kiyosaki

To make a recap, To take back your PERSONAL POWER
you need to take these 4 crucial steps:

  1. Know your outcome and have it crystal clear in your mind.
  2. Take consistent action to achieve your outcome.
  3. Pay attention to your actions & learn from them and,
  4. Have the flexibility to change your actions when necessary in order to get you closer to achieving your outcome.

 

Remember, Your personal power is a result of the little achievements
or successes you have accomplished.

And if you don’t know where to start well…. Find a role model.
Someone who is exactly where you want to be,
learn about them, study their success, pay attention to the good
and the mistakes they made.

Once you start doing that, you will find a patternon their behaviour,
on their mindset. And it is then when you will follow those steps.
You don’t need to reinvent the wheel and go through trial and error.
Save yourself some time and pains, wise people also learn from the experience of others.

Finally, failure can be your best friend. Actually, the greatest successful
people in the world are people who have been through so much success
and failure that it grow them into a whole new level of success.

LEARN from your mistakes, and take that step forward.
Train your mind to look for answers and solutions,
develop healthy habits, feed your mind with powerful knowledge and
finally, TAKE MASSIVE CONSISTENT ACTION.

Finally, before I wrap up this post, I propose an exercise for you
What are those 3 things that you have been pushing away over the last
couple of hours, days, weeks, months… even years.

What are they?
You know what they  are….
Perhaps is to start exercising, or finishing that homework
or stop smoking, or cleaning up your room.

No matter what is it, commit to do them and Start gaining
your personal power NOW.

That’s all for today folks, I’ll see you tomorrow and hey!
If you find this blogpost inspiring, if it resonates with you or
with anyone you know then share it with them and let’s spread the
word to help more people take back their personal power, their lives!

Love & Light,

~Ameli.

Success result of good judgement, good judgement is result of experience, experience is result of bad judgement. (Anthony Robbins)

 

Get to the EDGE and LIVE WITH PASSION! – Countdown to BALI

AMELI EXPOSED: GET TO THE EDGE AND LIVE WITH PASSION

AMELI EXPOSED?? Seriously?
Yes, that’s correct. If you’re reading this you’re obviously wondering about it.

Since our Bali Mastermind is starting in August,
and the theme of it is TRANSFORMATION, then over
the next days I will go through my little own PRE- TRANSFORMATION
so In this post I’m going to show you myself naked, as I am.

You may find some things you agree with , like and inspire you
and my hope is, to give you an idea of what YOU can achieve
and how you can create an amazing life for yourself
by getting to the Edge and LIVING WITH PASSION!

Ready?
Ok… Here we go!

One of the huge advantages of being able to work from home
and run my own business online is having the freedom to
Take some time off when I chose to.

Over the last weeks I have kept myself very quiet and in the background.
The reason of it is that even when I was doing good with business,
I felt there was something…. missing.

Being a Wealthypreneur…

See, I love seeing more income coming into my bank account,
but if I don’t feel it, if for some reason it seems a bit disconnected from my
main purpose, then it is not fulfilling anymore.

To me being a WEALTHYPRENEUR is doing things with PURPOSE,
things that fulfill and give a meaning to your life, my success is a result of it
and my income is a quantifiable way to measure it.

Being a Wealthypreneur is being Wealthy in ALL AREAS of Your Life:
Your Health, Nutrition & Physical Body; Your Emotions, Your Relationships,
Your Career & Mission, Your Finances & Your Contribution to the world.

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Introspection Times…

woman wild emotional rollercoaster wealthypreneursI have spend the last weeks doing some introspection going through
a roller coaster of emotions, reasons, Why’s, burning-desires and
the actions I have been taking.

I’ve find myself crying for no reason, feeling super down and
somehow kind of stuck in some sort of “je ne sais quoi” state.
On the other hand, I’ve also felt super happy, blessed, grateful
and lucky for the life that I’m living and for everything around me.
It’s been an overwhelming experience….

 

Crazy People Shape the World

By now, you probably think I’m crazy…. well…. YES, I AM
And you know what? Crazy people shape the world.

I am different, I’m the quiet person with a loud mind,
I’m the creative mind behind wonderful things,
the woman who watches you straight into the eye and tries to see through your soul
the woman who listens carefully, pays attention and doesn’t usually say a word
but when I do, I’ve got so much passion and so much to share and give
that words are not enough, sometimes I speak too fast for some people
and I often wind up out of breath and I create words on the go that
might sound weird or funny but can shake your whole world.

And here is to the crazy ones…

LIFE MOTTO: EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON

I follow my heart and my intuition, I TOTALLY believe that
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
I believe in it SO BAD that it is my motto in life.

I don’t believe in casualties but Causalities and mostly,
I AM CERTAIN that WE CREATE OUR OWN REALITY
no matter where you are at right now, no matter where you come from
or what your background is. YOU CREATE YOUR OWN REALITY.

Now, before I go out of subject, I’ll get back to narrate you the
roller coaster I’ve deliberately embarked myself in. I  have analized every single emotion,
its origins, its effects and I’ve tried to descifer the hidden codes in it in order
to convert those “Personal Challenges” into “Personal Successes”.

I’m an innate curious person who LOVES analyzing, questioning and mostly… Understanding :).

So after that period, I decided to DO something for myself,
not for the monetary income that is going to generate me but for
how much is going to make me grow as a person, as a human being of quality
and  therefore as a better human being to Serve YOU.

TODAY I am starting day number one of my Personal CHALLENGE.
I am GETTING TO THE EDGE of MY LIFE to LIVE with PASSION and PURPOSE EVERYDAY.

Over the following days I am going to share a thought, a piece of advice or a simple exercise with the aim to help you go through your day, go through those challenges you are going right now, and to help you break those certain patterns in your day-to-day life that are cause the gap from Where you are to where You Want to Be.

And considering that Our “Countdown to Bali”has officially started too, then let’s do it :)!

WE are going to GET THE EDGE & Live With Passion!

See you tomorrow folks!

Love & Light,

~ Ameli.

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