Ameli Antoinette – Sharing My Mission and Vision with You

So I’ve decided to be sharing my mission and vision with you. I have to admit that it took me a while to figure out my mission and vision.

No, actually, it took me a while to put my mission and vision into words so I could come up with a short phrase that is easy to understand… You know the Rule: Keep it Short and Sweet.

If you’re one of those whose got as much patience ad sylvester has with tweety, then here is the video for you to watch it

I’ve had a vision ever since I was 5 or 6, some people called it dreams, but my childhood dreams became my vision. As I grew up, I knew that my dreams, my vision was closely tied to my vision. Sometimes life puts into our way experiences that we think – I mean, we swear we won’t be able to overcome them!- It’s like chilling out at the beach on a beautiful summer morning, when all of a sudden you feel that the earth shakes -actually you don’t because you’re floating on the calming sea-water- but then you feel the current is taking you away from the shore and suddenly this MASSIVE, HUGE, IMMENSE WAVE (let’s call it a TSUNAMI) starts forming right in front of your beautiful bambi eyes.

When that happens you’ve got 2 options, The fearful-freak-out side of you wants to run away scooby-doo style hoping to find the highest point at the top of the closest mountain (yeah,right).

Whereas the other side, the rebellious one, wants to quickly find a board, jump on it and paddle towards that massive wave and SURF IT! Determined to break a Guinness record while it keeps telling you “We’ve got this baby!“(yeee-haw).

But then, you realize that instead of standing up staring at the tsunami thinking of what was best to do. You should have just take action first! because now…

Oh – no…

Oh – no…

Because now, you are underwater history.



So now that you’ve got an insight of what happens in my mind within 2 seconds of having to take tough decisions at a rush moment. Let’s get back to my… reality check and lessons learnt.

After being devoured and thrashed a thousand times from that -better yet, those– couple of tsunamis*. I saw my life playing as a movie while drowning (this bit is literally true).

*This tsunamis were called:

  • The “Passing Away”: My beloved and sweet Mom passing away very quickly during a crucial moment in my life when I only had time to be strong, move on and get my work done.
  • The “It’s time To Say Good-Bye”: A very bad and toxic split of a long relationship with the man whom -back then- I totally believed was the one I would spend the rest of my life with.
  • The “Career Change & Naysayers Carols”: After having pretty much zero time to be with my mom, I re-assesed my life and decided to make a career change. I always had the entrepreneurial bug within me. I wanted to have my own business so I decided it was time to Start my own business. Of course, I had no idea what to do and how to do it; my family and most of the people around me, but 3 people, were singing their nay-saying Carols , telling me I was NUTS for leaving my Medical career, my status and my home country (Yes I made a big move from Peru to NZ)
  • The “Oh Baby I’m Your 25 Crisis, nice to meet you”: I was 25 and my life was a total mess, everything was upside down, what I’ve had planned ever since I was 12 dissappeared in a blink of an eye, I was all alone. What the Heck was I going to Do??? Yes, believe it or not I was on my 24’s-25’s when ALL OF THIS BOMBS EXPLODED pretty much within a period of 3 months.


BUT Somehow, I managed to survive, I choked, I lost my memory but then when I woke up I was actually upside down hanging from a rock. Bruised, with some ribs broken and very confused I made my way back again. This is only a bit of what I have learnt…


  1. Life is not easy, but it’s not difficult either. It is our perception at the precise moment what defines what life really is. And it’s our Actions at that moment what determine what will happen to us in the future. In other words, where we are TODAY is somehow a result of a series of actions we have taken in the past.
  2. Life is not a colorful world, but it ain’t all black and white, baby.  Actually, the monochromatic tones will jump into it every now and then. It is only up to you to choose the right color combinations and create your own canvas, your own masterpiece.
  3. Your mind and your time are your biggest assets. In my opinion, material things are worthless if you don’t have the time, the freedom to enjoy it and the right people around you to share it with. So your TIME and your MIND are your biggest assets. Spend them wisely, invest them wisely. If you do you’ll have the freedom and the ability to generate the abundance that will complement the life you love. For you and the ones around you:)


So… what does THIS has to do with sharing my mission and vision with you?

It may seem more like I’m rambling, but the truth is. What I have just said above has everything to do with me managing my own business, loving my life and communicating my core with YOU

Some of my decisions took me through the tough road, some of them were lessons I HAD-TO learn, lessons that I needed to learn so I could become a better person to Serve You. To give you the value -I hope You need- to take charge of YOUR OWN LIFE!

My mission is to help you take inspired action so you take charge of your own life. Making a balance between your mind and your soul, to create a lifestyle and a business that you absolutely love.

If there is ONE thing I am ABSOLUTELY certain is that YOU create your own reality. And there is no one more responsible for anything that happens in your life but YOURSELF.

But that is something we’ll discuss on my next video, on my next post where I will give you the Tips and Advice to consider before Quitting your Job, so whether you want to start a new business, make a career change, travel the world, go on food tours then, stay tuned for my next post!

Advice #1 is: Embrace Your Situation :).

That’s all for today folks!

See you tomorrow!

Create an EPIC Life


Ameli Antoinette – My Story in a nutshell

Ameli Antoinette – My Story in a nutshell

At 25 I decided to make a career change.
At 27, I decided to quit my job and start my own business.

On both occasions I didn’t know what to do.
I was lost but I knew I was not going to work for anyone else EVER again.
Long story short, I was determined to make something work out.

So I kept going -sort of guessing what to do-
It took me a while but after hitting rock bottom, I found a way.

Want to know what happened? or my story?
Watch the video to learn a bit about myself and come back tomorrow
to discover my vision and WHY I  am SO focused on keep helping other people
become entrepreneurs and live life their own way, under their own rules!

As I usually say, you’ve got the right and the obligation to life life YOUR WAY!

And if you‘ve been asking yourself if you should quit your job, change your career  or start a business then…
come back tomorrow to get the advice I wish someone gave me when I made that decision!

See you tomorrow!


ps: You on facebook? Follow me on my fb page here,
pps: If you want to know my story into a bit more detail, then check out this post 🙂

~Amelí Antoinette.

The Power of Neuro-Associations: Shaping Your Decisions

The Power of Neuro-Associations : Shaping your decisions

Hey there, welcome back , It’s great to “see you” here again :)!
Before I go onto explaining what are neuro-associations and how
they shape your decisions, I’ll refresh your mind with what we
have been covering over the last 3 days:

  1. How to Get to the edge and live with passion.
  2. The 3 pillars to living an Extraordinary Life
  3. The only ways that you can make a change in your life
    is to use your personal power to take action.
  4. What stops most people from taking action is fear of pain
    whether that pain is fear of failure, rejection, disappointment.
    We actually spoke in detail how PAIN and pleasure are the
    controlling forces of our lives

So TODAY, we are going to talk about the neurological association

(neuro-association) and how humans (you,we,us –unless of course
you are an alien
:P)  create pre-programmed responses that may be
sabotaging your success

Any association of pain within your neurological system stops you
from taking on new challenges. If you associate pleasure with eating
chocolate or ice-cream then you will do it, but what do you think it
happens if you associate the feeling of being trapped with marriage????
How long do you think your marriage will last?

If you’ve always wanted to own a business and you haven’t done it
yet,is because you neuro-associate too much pain to it. So if you
want to start a new business, you have to change those neuro-associations.

For example, what would having a new business would mean to you?
What would it mena to your life? What would you get that you don’t
have now? What will you gain?

It is not about what it would mean intellectually but what would it
mean to you mentally? emotionally? what good positive feelings
would you get? How great would you feel when you talk about it?

There has to be PLEASURE in starting a business and PAIN in not doing so.


What are those key neuro-associations?
How can we change the conditioned response to our
environment, so we can feel differently about eating
food when you are stressed? Or to stop thinking that
exercise is linked with pain.  And they are only going
to change once you change the conditioning feelings
about it. These pre-programmed links direct your life!
They direct your motivation, what you do and what you don’t do.

Thinking positive is not enough, you have to change
those neuro-associations and  every action you take
whatever it is, as tiny as it may seem– has a
consequence and effect in your life.

For every action, there is a reaction.
For every direction you head on, there is a destiny.


There are neurological links that are associated with your
past that are controlling your present. So how do we look
back and find what these links are and how do we reprogram them?

Well, this is what you can do:

  1. To create a new neuro-association all you have to do is
    link a new emotion with that current neurological
    association that you do not like (exercise, writing,  dieting etc)
    and then
  2. All you have to do is get yourself to feel a positive, happy,
    once you are in that state link it to something you thought
    it was painful. Link it to it over and over again, repeat it .
    By repeating it you will get it.

For example. I do not enjoy routines. I am just not a person of
routines. Why? Because most of my life Ive always been following
a routine, I always wanted it all perfect, and for that I neede to learn
how to make things perfect, my way. I was an avid learner, so
every summer my mom would  subscribe me to advanced classes for
the year I was going to take. Then I loved Sports, so right after my
monday – saturday lessons, I’d go to the club, do some gymnastics,
train for my swimming competitions and do some tae-kwon do.
I was always busy, and mi life at my short 9 years old was very very
well structured. I had my own routine.

I think that is another reason why I loved being a doctor, because
everything had to be perfect for my patients, and I was ALWAYS BUSY,
to a point that I literally had no life. I replace my fun times in the pool,
at the gym, by strangely enjoying the stress of the ER and loving every
single surgery.

BUT THEN, at my 18’s I started travelling the world, and my perception
totally changed. All of a sudden, I noticed that I did not neede to have
an extremely structured routine. I felt like a bird out od a cage whitout
even knowing I was living on a cage. It was by this time that I was on my
second year of Med School. And for the following years, there was no summer
or holiday that I wouldn’t grab my backpack and strart travelling,
searching for adventures, discovering new places and meeting new

ALL of a Sudden returning back to Lima (Peru) turned into a pain
because I wanted to keep travelling. My love for medicine was there,
but …. I wanted to keep traveling!

Do you see the pattern there? I associated “routine” to be trapped in a room.
I am 27 now, and after leaving my career as a Medical Doctor,
my life totally changed. All of that structure I was used to was gone,
I didn’t need to wake up and leave home before the sunrise, etc etc….
and to be honest, at first, it was nice and I enjoyed it but,
it took me a while to get used to it. Time passed, I came across
developing and owning my own online business,  and
I knew that I had to get back into action to get things DONE.

But somehow I would find ways to procrastinate, sometimes
I wouldn’t even notice it, and when I did I would just tell to myself
that I am not a person of routines anymore because they made me
feel trapped……

But then, I also knew that all of the highly successful business
professionals have routines, healthy successful routines, or
“successful rituals”which comes down to discipline, having
the discipline to developing healthy habits.

THEN one day, I realize that yet again, I was following
a routine, a routine with a negative pattern of procrastination.
Day by day, I was causing me more pain by not taking action,
I was having a negative routine that was leading me to failure.
And I wanted to succeed.

Guess what?? That was a SHIFT. A TOTAL SHIFT. 

So my opinion on routines  automatically changed and I started
associating routines with success. Which in fact makes total sense
when I trained for my swimming competitions and follow my routines
I’d  always win, When I attended my courses and study I would get
great great and honours.  NOW I associated my new routine
to having the ability to creating the life I love, it was the shortcut
I needed to create a life of Freedom. I want success and that success
makes me feel good and routines are part of that success,
so I should feel great about carrying out some kind of a routine :).

Another example is dieting. Recently I started a diet,  and one aspect
to losing weight is eating less calories and eating less calorie dense food.
I’ve always eat healthy, and I would prefer my delicious fruits and salads
rather than a piece of steak. I would different times on the day and I
had them at breakfast, midday, lunch, med-afternoon, dinner and
sometimes a bit before going to bed. So yeah, I ate like 6 times aday
and it was all fruits, veggies and heaps of water /green tea.

But when I move to New Zealand, and discovered other cultures foods.
I was just AMAZED. I have become a lover of indian food and also a
fan of rice (whereas in Peru I would probably eat it a couple of times a year)
I wasn’t used to have normal dinner like most of people normally do
and my partner would just have a huge piece of steak and eat heaps
because he’s a body builder…. Anyway, I got to a point where I could
eat as much as him. Like a whole pizza for myself only!

Then I noticed I was getting unfit, and I still remember the one day I had
for breakfast a sandwich like this: Cheese, chorizo on top with a fried egg
on top of the chorizo, covered by some more cheese melting down.
It looked delicious! But it was sooooo much fat that it got me sick,
my digestive sensitive is quite sensitive to fat, and for example I cannot
eat any tipe of hamburguers because they really make me sick.
Some chicken hamburguers are not too toxic. But still.
Anyway that day, I was full for the whole day, I Was feeling sick,
nauseous, burpy, with indigestion. I know this sounds like I was sick,
and NO I don’t have gallbladder stones. Actually my gallbladder looks
beautifully clean. IT’s just that my body cannot tolerate eating too much fat
– I think it’s because most of my life I’ve eaten healthy fresh veggies & fruits-

Ok, getting back to my point now, as you can naturally guess
more carbs, more steak, more chocolate indulgence and  kiwi
goodies. I started to gain weight and my jeans shrinked! LOL

The one night I was sitting in bed with my partner next
to me while watching a movie and I started getting some
It was hard to fight the urge to get up and go to the kitchen.
At one point I looked over to him and said:
“I am going to make something to eat”.

He is a VERY GOOD accountability partner and quickly
asked me why. After telling him that  I was hungry he
mentioned a single sentence that feels like it has changed
me forever.  He said:

 “Hunger is simply an indication that you are
achieving your goal so being hungry is good sign!’

WOW, I am achieving my goal and my body is telling me,
my body is congratulating me for getting closer to my goal!
ow awesome is that! So far from being starving, my body
is simply telling me that it is changing and it is happy :)!.

Now I have a new neurological response to feeling hungry
while dieting and this is actually associated with a feeling of
ACHIEVEMENT which is greatly powerful in achieving your goals!.

2) What emotions do you associate with the following?

  • Giving  ( Do not give so much of yourself that you do not take the time to enjoy receiving).
  • Drugs and alcohol
  • Police
  • Debt

You are always creating associations in your mind. When a
particular song comes on the radio it will take you back to that
amazing date you had, or that terrible place you use to work at.

Your brain is creating these neurological links ALL THE TIME.
These strong feelings can be linked to what is happening around you
at that moment.

For example, Imagine that one day when you were a child and
you were sick, you mum made you eat something which main
ingredient is cabbage and you did not feel like eating. But you
know, you have to eat to recover  the energy you lose while your
body is trying to battle the disease. So you eat,  but YOU HAD
to eat it. All of a sudden, you wind up vomiting.

You associate “cabbage” with feeling sick and vomiting,
the years pass, you have probably forgotten about that event
but somewhere in your subconscious mind it has been SAVED
and whenever you see cabbage , you don’t know why, but
you just can’t stand it.

That is a simple example of a negative neuro-association.

Now if you realize that vomiting had nothing to do with the poor
cabbage but with just the the natural process of a disease, and that
it is unreasonable to link cabbage with vomiting because the cabagge
had nothing to do with it. Then your patterns start to change!

Al of a sudden you can start linking cabbage with a new experience,
a delicious plate that gives you energy, new flavours, joy, satisfaction.

Does this sounds familiar to you? or do you know someone
who’s been through something similar?

Another example:

What happens when you see the blue and red flashing lights in your
review mirror, how do you feel about that??? Have you ever gotten a
speeding ticket? Do you get those emotions when you see those
flashing lights even when you know you have done nothing wrong?
This is another indication of neurological programming.

These associations can totally dis-empower us because we believe
that this feeling of emotion is the reality but in fact it might have
no bearing on our actual reality at all, it was simply an emotional
neurological link that was created due to an experience.

In my next blog post I am going to explain how you can change
these neurological associations. Just like Pavlov’s conditioning
the dogs. Whenever Pavlov rang a bell his dogs associated the
sound with food and Pavlov trained his dogs to make that
association and as Pavlov trained his dogs we can train our
neurological associations.

So, your assignment for today is:

  • Write down 3 associations that make your life more positive
    and 3 associations that are limiting your life

My positive associations

– Cigarettes take my breath away and I hate feeling ill.
– I am smart and have a good memory, that’s how I
became a doctor
– Vegetables & fruits are full of healthy vitamins, minerals,
fiber and make me feel INCREDIBLE.

My negative associations
– eating food makes me feel good.
– I am not good at making jokes or being funny
(I always laugh at my own laughs even before I’ve finish them LOL)

Now that you have read my post, what are some of YOUR
positive and negative associations?

Make sure to read my next blog about how to change
neurological association to improve your life.

Oh by the way, another word for neuro-associations is…
Neuro-Linguistic-Programming (NLP)-I’m sure you’ve heard a lot about this :)!

See you tomorrow!,
Au revoir


Are you controlling your life or is life controlling you?

Thats right… Are you controlling your life or is your life controlling you?

I’m going to start this post by asking You
What is that motivation that steers you to do certain things?
or perhaps that stops you from doing certain things

See, yesterday we spoke about the 4 Crucial Steps to take
back your personal power
, and  if you haven’t read it or
checked  the video yet, then I suggest you stop reading
RIGHT NOW and go ahead watch the video I posted
on facebook  >>click here to watch the video<<

Did you watch the video??

The reason why I am emphasizing on you watching the video
is because you need the previous information in order to understand
correctly what I am saying now. I’m not saying you are silly or
something like that but it just goes like this:

Would you understand to multiply, without knowing how to sum??
would you go run a marathon without doing any training?
would you invest any money on the stock market, without
understanding how does the stock market work?

No, because you obviously want to understand how things
work first before making a big decision. Right?

Well, the same principle applies here.
By reading this posts and watching my videos, you are filling
your mind with VALUABLE information. You are INVESTING
in yourself, but you want to do it in the correct way and that is
by starting from… The Beginning 🙂

So once again, here’s my video and post from yesterday
for you to take a look … 🙂
>> Ok Ameli, take me to yesterday’s video and post  <<


Alright, let’s carry on … Now that you know what is your
personal power and how you can take it back with 4 crucial steps
let’s go a bit deeper…


Let’s face it, there is a lot of people in the world that wants to be successful
(whatever success means to you) people who wants to make a lot of money,
or make money online, people who wants to get that promotion or, ask that
special person to go out on a date, or maybe just go on a diet to lose some kilos.

Now that You know what it needs to be done in order to achieve your goals,
it seems easy, right? I mean it’s all about 1. knowing what you want and having
a clear vision of your outcome, 2. Taking the necessary Action towards achieving
your outcome, 3. Paying attention to your actions so you know if what you are
doing  is taking you closer or further from your goal and 4. Being Flexible enough
to modify and improve those actions so ultimately you get closer and closer to
achieving your outcome!.


Know what you want, take action, know what is working out and
keep changing
until you have achieve the results you want.

Simple, Simple, simple!

But then if it is so simple why is it that a lot of people just can’t follow
through and stick to their goals? What is preventing them from taking action??


The answer is: FEAR, fear of failure, fear to being rejected,
fear of “being different”, fear of getting out of the norm,
or even fear of SUCCESS…

To make it clearer,

Our decisions and the way we do things are driven by:

  1. PAIN

These are the two controlling forces that are preventing you from
taking action. And you must have this clear in your mind:

EVERYTHING we do in life is based on our need to avoid pain or gain pleasure.

For example,

  • Let’s say that Jen is a very busy woman, she knows she’s been out
    of touch with her family and friends for a while. She knows that a simple
    call will solve it. But, one thing leads to the other and she gets caught up
    with work, emails, telephone calls, the gym, work, etc etc…
    She gets CAUGHT UP.

Another example:

  • Jon, he is a guy who is overwheight, he knows he has to go on a diet
    and eat healthier. He loves chocolate, big cheesy hamburgers and coke.
    That’s his deal, he’s got no time to cook, so McDonalds, BK, Pizza Hut,
    KFC –you name it–  will work out.
    He know  he has to eat healthier, and it would be easier if he organizes
    some healthy food and drinks some water instead of soda but then again
    there’s too much work, staying late  at the office, answering
    emails, phonecalls, getting stuck in traffic and.. Jon gets CAUGHT UP.

And my final example,

  • Have you ever left something up until the very  end or somehow have you
    found ways to push away whatever you know you HAVE TO do immediately,
    but then you manage ways to distract with other things?
    Yes,  I am talking about PROCRASTINATION.But then again you just push things for so long that you get to a point
    where you say “What the heck??”!”I better get this sh* done before
    they get worse!  And in a blink of an eye you do whatever it is
    necessary (TAKE ACTION) to get things DONE.
    This is procrastination reversing itself.

I mean, have you ever been there??

Now, can you relate to any of these examples in any-way?
Or  do you know someone that  you can relate to?
Yes? No? Just be honest with yourself.
In fact, I’ll be honest with you: I have, a lot of times.

Do you see what do the people in these examples have in common?

YES, They get CAUGHT UP.
They allow circumstances to drive  and manage their lives
instead of them managing their own life by controlling how
they respond to circumstances around them.  They have lost
their  personal power and they NEED to take it back!

So WHY do we procrastinate?

Simple, because we have the wrong impression and/or
perspective, and we think that by not taking action we
will experience less pain than by taking action.

We have the wrong idea in our minds!

Subconsciously what you are really thinking is that the
idea of taking action now is going to be more painful
than actually getting things done and dusted.

Have you EVER feel like that??
Just think about it!

And WHY does this happen?? Because you haven’t learn
to control these two forces: Your motivating forces of pain and pleasure.

Don’t get me wrong, it is in our human nature, it’s part of our
survival mechanism to avoid pain. And your brain is just going
to fight like crazy to prevent you from doing something that is
going to lead you to pain. BUT (yes, there’s always a but) it
is here when you need to shift your perception.

This is when you need to PAY ATTENTION to WHAT YOU
LINK the ideas of PAIN AND PLEASURE to.

Now you have clear that it is part of our nature to do things
that cause us less pain and more pleasure. But then if there
are 2 different circumstances that are going to cause pain and
you have to choose one, naturally, you are going to go for the
one that is less painful. Are you?

In conclusion:



Now that you know about these 2 principles of PAIN & PLEASURE
You need to create self-awareness and CONTROL what
you  link these 2 principles to.

CHANGE what you link pain and what you link pleasure to.

Let me give you a simple example:

  • It’s that time of the year when you need to file your taxes,
    You have known for a whole year that the time will come
    again  and you knew that if you had things ready it would
    be easier to file your taxes. But you didn’t, you got caught up
    with other stuff in your life like…
    “Oh m I’m too tired now, I’ll do it tomorrow, I still have some time anyway” or,
    “Ugh, I don’t like doing that stuff…. I’ll do it some time” bla bla blaAt the end of the day, the time has passed and have you started
    receiving notifications that if you do not file your taxes
    within the next week you’ll be in deep deep trouble, you’ll
    have to pay some fines, and things will just get worse…It is at this point when you decide to TAKE ACTION & GET THINGS DONE

But, it could have been WAY easier!

Do you see what happened here?

You though that getting things done, actually filling a simple
form online was “painful”,  you thought in the “present” moment,
with short term results. But eventually, procrastinating
about it and “leaving things for later” had even worse
consequences that caused you a lot more “PAIN” and it
was only then when you decided to get things done.

BUT, what if you have thought the other way around?

Like, “Ok yes, I need to file my taxes, I’ll fill out the form
quickly, It is all clear and understandable anyway so then I’ll
have free time to do the things I really enjoy, doing things NOW
is going to save  me from worries, from having to pay fines and
going through unnecesary stress”.

Final Example,

  • If you are going through some financial struggle, things
    seem to work out for a while, everything is going great!
    But then all of a sudden, something happens and you start
    sabotaging yourself, just when you were having some  momentum.

WHY did this happen?

Because somewhere in your mind, you have the wrong idea
the money is bad, or as the media wants to make us think:
rich people takes advantage of poor people, and you are a lovely
person, you don’t want to take advantage of anyone,
You just want to help, inspire and serve other people or,
rich people doesn’t have time to be with their family so you just
decide to be poor to be with your family because you love them
and you care about them.

First of, ok the main reason why you are self-sabotaging yourself
is because you Love your family and you want to protect them,
you want to spend time with them. And that is beautiful!

But then again, do you see how you are causing more pain to
yourself and your family by not taking action? By stopping you
from succeeding and by denying your family and the people
you love the right to live the life all of you deserve?

Do you see how painful it is not having enough money to buy
some food for your family? Having to work endless hours at
minimum wage only for survival? Limiting yourself and your
family by making them go through more pain? A pain that they
DO NOT deserve at all…. When instead, if you could make
more money, like running your own online business and doing
whatever it takes to take action, you’d have the power to change
their lives.

You’d be providing them the joy to eat healthier, to spend more
family time together. Because if you decide to take action
and for example, you decide to build your own online business,
your legacy, not only you will have the money to take them on
holidays and save for your children’s health or for university,
but you will also have the time-freedom to BE WITH THEM
AT ALL TIMES, to make them happy, to live that life of
fulfillment that YOU and your family deserve..

Did you see what happened here? You CHANGED the FOCUS
to a POSITIVE OUTCOME, to Gaining more PLEASURE by
avoiding the real pain.

So ALL you need to do is SHIFT YOUR PERCEPTION  and
direct your FOCUS onto how not doing something is going
to be MORE PAINFUL than having to do so.

In other words: ASSOCIATE not taking action to being more painful
than actually doing it. Don’t wait until you’re out of time and
there’s so much pressure that you have to do something.
Save yourself from painful situations and just take ACTION!

USE this pain and pleasure principles to control situations
around you instead of having them controlling your life.

These principles work in ANY area of your life, whether it is
your personal life or your business life, whether if you are
finding it difficult to keep a relationship or struggling financially.

If you are sabotaging yourself someway  or another is because
deep deep deep into you, you are linking pain and pleasure to the wrong ideas.

HOW do you link pain and pleasure to the right ideas??

Well, First of all CONGRATULATIONS, because if you are
asking yourself that , it means that you are now AWARE of it
and that my friend is the biggest and most importnat step.

Now, what is next?
#2 is Asking yourself WHAT is it going to mean TAKING
ACTION? What results are you going to get? What pains
and pleasures are you gonna get from it?

#3 Ask your self what is it going to mean not taking action?
What is it going to be the results in your life? What pains
and pleasures are you going to get? What extra pain are you
going to gain by not taking action?

#4 What would taking action mean to you emotionally, physically,
mentally, Spiritually? What pleasure are you going to gain?How are
you going to feel?  Happy, Proud, More Confident, Stronger, Recognized, Admired…


So decide to take control of your life now, choose what you FOCUS on,
and your behavior will steer in that direction, all by learning to
control pain and pleasure and what you choose to follow through.

What would you lose if you do not take action?
Are you preventing yourself from living an extraordinary life?

Do what is right for your life my friend, You deserve to live an
extraordinary life, you deserve a life of fulfillment so
shift your focus,decide to TAKE ACTION NOW, stop letting your
life controlling you and start controlling your life.

The World is YOUR OYSTER.

See you tomorrow on my next post,

Love & Light,


Wealthypreneurs controlling pain and pleasure to control your life success anthony robbins

Take Back Your Personal Power: The 4 Crucial Steps

What do you think it is Your Personal Power?

Your personal Power is your inner ability to
TAKE ACTION and produce results.

It is a power that lives within You and ignites
at certain times of your life, leading you to
achieve the results you want so bad.

See, we all have it within us but sometimes
for X reasons, it slips away of our hands
and we feel vulnerable, powerless.

Can you relate to that?
That overwhelming sensation we feel when
something doesn’t work out the way we expected it,
the way we wanted it to be.

Yes, it can be scary but the truth is, it is only temporary
and you can get back even more powerful from it if
you decide to do So.

Now, let’s get to the juice….

What you need to know if you want to take back your personal power

It all comes down to 2 words:

Success & Failure.

Failure is the result of failing to stay consistent and committed,
failing to follow through our goals and not giving our 110%

Success -on the other hand- is the result keeping consistent and
staying committed, following our goals and breaking through
the limits that used to stop us.

So if you really want to change things in your life,
YOU NEE TO TAKE ACTION. Because it is a combination of
these little successes what create the life you want, a life YOU OWN.

So, HOW do You Start? What Steps do you need to take?

Let’s see… yesterday we spoke about the 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life?
In there I mentioned that one of those those pillars is Your Attention, Your FOCUS


Your Personal power comes from FOCUSING on what you WANT to achieve
and taking DAILY ACTION towards it.  And it is a sum of those small steps,
of that “small” progress that adds up and can TOTALLY TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE.

A Journey of a Thousand miles begins with one single step wealthypreneurs lao tzu

To reinforce it again, ANYTHING YOU FOCUS on
a CONSISTENT BASIS – whatever it is- you will achieve,

So here, I’ll bring back again what type of Language are you using?
Are you using words on your favour or against yourself?

Remember, you have the ULTIMATE POWER to live the life you DESIRE.
Something powerful that I heard was:

“Instead of focusing on how to make a living, focus on how you can DESIGN the life you want.”

It is not about luck, or having the skills or talents.
Because some people can have all of the skills they need to succeed in a certain area
but they do not use them, they don’t work with them. They stay stagnant

Whereas for example, when I started working online, I had no “online skills”
and all I knew about the internet was how to do some research on my
favourite Medical Journals, send emails and facebook. I didn’t even know
what was instagram!

and develop the skills I Needed. And, as many of other successful online
entrepreneurs I know, I have become my own boss by  working online.

It is THE SAME with any other are of your life, I said before….

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve”


If you look at the people who is the most successful in any area you choose,
they were either absolutely INSPIRED to succeed and thrive, to win that nobel prize,
to win the oscar, to win that race, to earn that promotion, to succeed in the
stock market, etc..etc..
Or, they were absolutely DESPERATE to get out of their current situation at that time,
they were sick and tired to struggle financially, sick and tired of living paycheck to paycheck,
or depending upon others, being unable to provide to their families the life they deserve,
or maybe desperate to get out of that awful job with an stupid boss and totally desperate to
work from home, or travel the world…..

Did you notice something??

Either way, INSPIRED or DESPERATE, use both emotions as a MOTIVATION,
as a MOTOR to improve, to be better, to demand more from yourself that anyone
else could ever expect, to THRIVE.

So Get uncomfortable my friend and decide to make a change.

Another  tip that can help you as well is studying, self-education,
find a role model, fill your mind with useful knowledge and apply it.
Because, no matter what you have been through, no matter what
has happened to you in the past, no matter the mistakes you made


Remember, The past does not equal the future.


    The clearer you are into knowing exactly what you want,
    the clearer you get into knowing your outcome.
    You must get focus in what you want and the result you want from it.
    Once you have it, imagine it to detail, and FOCUS in it.
    Ask yourself,  What is the out come I want?
    How achieving this outcome is going to influence my life?
    What is useful about this? What is the use of this? how can I use it?
    Everyday, take the steps to move towards the achievement of your
    goals. START TODAY, because there is no other day than “Today”
    and your present actions. Someday in the future is the result of what you do TODAY,
    of what you are doing NOW.
    Make a decision that you are willing to push yourself to the next level,
    demand more from yourself than anybody would expect.

    If for any reason you feel fear, fear to not succeed well, guess what….
    fail harder robert kiyosaki wealthypreneurs

    Pay attention and notice what you  learn from the actions you take.
    Pay attention to what is working or not. Are those actions
    getting you closer or further from your goal?
    So this is what I mean when I say BE FLEXIBLE:   if after paying attention
    to your actions you see that they are not getting you closer to your goal,
    or they are not giving you the results you want, then CHANGE THINGS.
    Change your approach, Try something else, think outside the box and IMPROVE :)IF WHAT YOUR ARE DOING THAT NOT WORK, TRY SOMETHING ELSE. CHANGE YOUR APPROACH

Now you’ll probably  be wondering…. HOW Often do IT try?
The answer is…. UNTIL YOU SUCCEED.

losers quit winners fail until they succeed wealthypreneurs robert kiyosaki

To make a recap, To take back your PERSONAL POWER
you need to take these 4 crucial steps:

  1. Know your outcome and have it crystal clear in your mind.
  2. Take consistent action to achieve your outcome.
  3. Pay attention to your actions & learn from them and,
  4. Have the flexibility to change your actions when necessary in order to get you closer to achieving your outcome.


Remember, Your personal power is a result of the little achievements
or successes you have accomplished.

And if you don’t know where to start well…. Find a role model.
Someone who is exactly where you want to be,
learn about them, study their success, pay attention to the good
and the mistakes they made.

Once you start doing that, you will find a patternon their behaviour,
on their mindset. And it is then when you will follow those steps.
You don’t need to reinvent the wheel and go through trial and error.
Save yourself some time and pains, wise people also learn from the experience of others.

Finally, failure can be your best friend. Actually, the greatest successful
people in the world are people who have been through so much success
and failure that it grow them into a whole new level of success.

LEARN from your mistakes, and take that step forward.
Train your mind to look for answers and solutions,
develop healthy habits, feed your mind with powerful knowledge and

Finally, before I wrap up this post, I propose an exercise for you
What are those 3 things that you have been pushing away over the last
couple of hours, days, weeks, months… even years.

What are they?
You know what they  are….
Perhaps is to start exercising, or finishing that homework
or stop smoking, or cleaning up your room.

No matter what is it, commit to do them and Start gaining
your personal power NOW.

That’s all for today folks, I’ll see you tomorrow and hey!
If you find this blogpost inspiring, if it resonates with you or
with anyone you know then share it with them and let’s spread the
word to help more people take back their personal power, their lives!

Love & Light,


Success result of good judgement, good judgement is result of experience, experience is result of bad judgement. (Anthony Robbins)


The 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life

The 3 pillars to living an extraordinary life – Countdown to Bali day 2


My heart is beating super fast…
You know that feeling you get when You KNOW
something EPIC is about to happen??

Well that’s exactly how I feel :D!

My trip to Bali is getting closer and closer each day,
and I just can’t be excited enough! I’m not there yet
and I feel like I’m already transforming…

Bali Countdown Ameli Wealthypreneurs Unstoppable Transformation Mastermind Unstoppable Mastermind extraordinary life


Now let me ask you a question, when was
the last time you felt Amazing?

When was the last time you felt like a Rockstar?

How about you could feel like that everyday,
at anytime, at any place, no matter What.

Want to know the Formula to an Extraordinary Life?

Well the formula to have an extraordinary life is actually simple,
it goes like this:

An Extraordinary Life is a result of an extraordinary MINDSET and an extraordinary way of looking at the world.

The Key to an Extraordinary MINDSET

It all depends of your input andhow you see things happening around you,
whether  they seem to be positive o negative. See, we live in two worlds:

  • Our external world
  • Our internal world.

In Your External World, things happen, and sometimes there are things
that are out-of-your-control.

In Your Internal World, things happen and You control  your response to THOSE things.

In other words, it is not where you live physically, it’s where you live internally and how you CHOOSE to LIVE.

The Internal world -which you can control – is key to your extraordinary mindset, to your extraordinary life.


What do You need to “control” your internal world?

There are basically 3 pillars that are going to help you control your internal world
and handle the situations in your external world . These will lead you to totally

These pillars are:

  1. Your emotions & your physical body
  2. Your Focus & beliefs
  3. The language you use.


  • Your Emotions & Physical Body

Remember this: eMOTION comes from MOTION. YOU NEED TO MOVE

When you think about it, it’s actually common sense.
a. Remember those moments when you are SUPER HAPPY, EXCITED, PUMPED UP,
What is your posture? What’s your voice tone?
You speak louder, with more confidence, your physical posture is upright, with a straight back
Does the term: BODY LANGUAGE comes along?? Ding ding ding ding  😉

b. Now also remember this, what happens to those things that DON’T move.
Who are stagnant, quiet, rigid, inflexible? They are dead! or about to die.
So the less you move, the less you feel, the less alive you are.

To relate with an example, I remember when I was feeling down,
laying in bed, still, quiet… it was horrible! Even when sometimes
I was just reading I mean, reading is cool, I love it!
But if you don’t move, it just gets boring!

So I would jump out of bed, and go out for a walk, to take some sunshine
to enjoy the views, and feelimg greateful for the wonderful things around.

Exercising will get you on the right mood and mindset, it will lift you up
and actually thereis a hormonal game going on when you exercise and,
to make it simple your “happy”hormones LOVE it when you exercise 🙂

So know you get it??

Just  MOVE !  🙂

Movement = Positive Emotions = Better  Life.

“The Quality of our life is the quality of the consistent emotions
that you experience”

  • Your Focus & Beliefs

 Remember the saying “” Energy flows where attention goes”?
Attention = Focus

And whatever we focus on we tend to feel whether it is true or not.

Let me explain, Imagine you are at the movies, watching a horror movie,
it’s all dark and you are focused on teh screen, on what is going to happen next
and then, all of a sudden BOOM! this spooky monster shows up and makes you jump
out of your sit!. And for a fraction of a second you feel this fear!

On the other hand, imagine you are at one of those 3D roller coaster simulators.
You jump in, the music pumps you up, everyone is excited and having lots of
fun! And then, it comes the time to go through what I call it “the free fall”
and you feel that pressure in your stomach when you want to scream but you can’t,
you are having the time of your life and you are feeling incredibly happy.


Were any of those situation REAL?
Technically… NO
But they felt as REAL.

Because you FOCUSED on them, and whatever you focus on you are going to feel
because your brain can not tell teh difference between something you focus on
or vividly imagine vs something that you are actually -physically- experiencing.

In conclusion, you can change how you feel according on what YOU CHOOSE to Focus on.

For example, instead of focusing on a temporary setback or challenge (commonly known as problems),
Focus on the SOLUTION. ask yourself the right questions, and with that comes….

  • Your language

Use your words to YOUR ADVANTAGE. What we say has so much power over us
and most of people don’t even realize it!. Specially when we say phrases with
intensity and emotion –also known as INCANTATIONS–  we actually believe them,
our subconscious mind believes them.

There are 2 types of Incantations, Positive and Empowering ones and Negative or Disempowering ones.
Most of people has a tendency to repeat the Negative Ones,
but I know that from now on you will focus on the positive ones 🙂

For example, you can start replacing …

– “This is too much, I can’t hand find a solution” for:  “HOW CAN I solve this?”
– “I’m feeling stuck” for  “WHAT CAN I DO to make things better?”
– “I feel sad” for “I choose to feel better everyday”

I know it may sound silly or crazy, but YOU NEED TO SAY THIS THINGS as if they already happen, be and feel grateful for them as if they were already happening :)!

To make a quick RECAP

  1. BE AWARE of yourself and how you choose to react to certain circumstances around you.
  2. FOCUS on the positives, turn around negatives for Positives. There is always something to learn out of what happens to us and hey! everyone has problems, life would be super boring and lame if everything was perfect.
  3. TAKE SOME TIME TO YOURSELF, in order to combine the 3 pillars we have previously discussed, you need to dedicate some time for YOURSELF. You can start with 15 min a day, and then scale up to 30 min or even an hour a day and make it your hour of power!.

So now you know it:
MOVE, do some exercise; while you walk or run FOCUS on the positives, dedicate at least 5 min of your routine to feeling GRATEFUL for the things around you, for being alive; after you feel grateful take some time to visualize how you want your life to be, and once again feel grateful for it as if it would be happening and finally, do some INCANTATIONS while you run,
do it out loud or in your mind (although out loud works way better!)

Some of the ones I Use are:
“All I need is within me now”

“Everyday in everyway I’m getting stronger and stronger”
“Everyday in everyway I’m feeling happier and happier”

And when I’m running an uphill and d feel like quitting
“every day and on every step I’m feeling stronger and stronger”
“ever day and with every breath I getting leaner and leaner”
“All the strenght I need is within me now”
“All the power I need is within me now”

All of these steps are part of my daily routine now, and I can tell you
my life is transforming, not only mine but my relationships and
everything in my life is getting better and better 🙂

You choose your words, apply these techniques with constance,
commit to them as if you were training for a competition,
studying for a big exam or preparing for a presentation and
I can GUARANTEE you that You will have an EXTAORDINARY LIFE!


So…How do you choose to feel today??  🙂

Love & Light,


decide to live an extraordinary-life

PS: After following this tips on a daily basis, a main factor that is also allowing me to live an extraordinary Life is the ability to run my own business online. To know exactly how I do it and , then just >> click this link<< and meet me there 🙂

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